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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25-45
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 25
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 9" (1.76m)
Body Type
Has cats
My self-summary
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Bay Area in February
Austin in end of March - HONKfest!
Savannah in April
Asheville in May
Back to the Bay in July....
Black Rock City in August....
Kentucky in the meantimes

*currently in (Kentucky)<---this changes
Highly likely to be visiting your town ....

Goddess of chaos. Joyful noise. Bike angel. Sister Provocateur. Pirate mermaid. Playful Kitten. Street Music. Benignly Unhinged. Southern Hospitality.

Kittychaos, AKA Kentucky Sunshine.

MUSICIAN!!!! Caution. Or not. Plays with street bands. Shares the flask. Perpetuates the grooves.

Friendship first.
Hopeless Romantic.
Choosy Hedonista.

Right now I'm a fan of emotionally mature open relationships. Clear communication skills are sexy. I have a few "intimate friendships" with amazing people who live and work around the world. I date open-minded, open-hearted (and sometimes openly married) people.

open to finding a long term partner but not in a rush. Love shows up in all sorts of ways, and I'm keen on appreciating it every day.

Companion animal. I love collaborative projects - art, farming, music, life in general.

Authentic as fuck. Attracted to people who tell and live their truth.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Healing Arts
Burning Man
Foxy Flautist
Minding my Manners

Work on the year round board for a big fun summer Flow Arts Festival in KY

Festivals and gatherings coast to coast (usually performing, building stuff, stage crew, staff support, etc. )

Writing and Music and writing music. For work and play and playful work.

co-operative small scale urban farming with friends. Organic gardening, chicken raising, slinking further away from "the grid," sustainability, fire tending, tree-hugging. Cat whispering.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Building fire breathing magical things.
Choosing my own adventures.
Cheering people up.
Dance parties.
Literary analysis.
Rocking out.
Petting cats.
Organizing stuff.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Glasses, Tattoos, and Sparkles.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
These days I'm highly involved with the punk rock marching band/street musician scene (HONK!).... I play with a few street bands coast to coast...
Inspired by: all the Honk bands, Electro-Swing, New Orleans party brass, Hot 8, marching band fun.
I like: Rockabilly, gypsy punk, ukelele fun, garage rock, classical, vintage country, sassy girl bands...
Likey: The New York Dolls, X, Pixies, Bowie, Ramones, Wanda Jackson, Loretta Lynn, Imelda May, Buddy Holly, Elvis Costello, Grandaddy, Noisettes, Janelle Monae, Neko Case, Lucky Soul, Rilo-Kiley, The Smiths, Bassnectar, ABBA, Lily Allen, Robyn, Beats Antique, Mayer Hawthorne, Girl in a Coma, Detroit Cobras, Gorillaz, Feist, Postal Service...(you get the idea well enough to know if our record collections will get along)

I have a healthy appreciation for rock n' roll. Also, hot guys and gals with guitars....'nuff said.

TeeVee :
I don't have one in my house. But I watch TV on the Internet sometimes.
Firefly, 30Rock, Battlestar G, Freaks and Geeks, Top Gear (BBC), Animals doing funny stuff….

I have too many of them in my house.
Bookshelf view on relationships -
"The Ethical Slut" and "Sex After Dawn"

Random Reccomendation:
"The Elegance of the Hedgehog" by Muriel Barbery - profound take on friendships, truth, beauty, and self-expression

"If you go home with somebody and they don't have books, don't fuck 'em." -John Waters

Food.....I was reading at the bar and forgot what I even ordered so it's a surprise!....
Conscientious but not picky. Appreciate goooooood food, fresh local greenery.
Cave person cuisine. Piles of nuts and berries. I sometimes just stand in my yard and eat food directly out of the garden.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Burning Man - freedom. Creative expression. Mega art. Fire. Dusty kisses.
2. Glasses - I need them to see anything further than 2" from my nose
3. Books - gotta read
4. Stellar friends/family and a social network with integrity. Trustworthy people.
5. Music - it's in my bones.
6. CATS - I have three and love them very much. If the mere sight of cats sends you into allergic death spasms then my apartment is not a hospitable zone
(My pets live in Kentucky when I'm traveling)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Soft apple cheeks and dimples.
Making a positive difference in this world and being badass when I do that....
Flying skateboards.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out, totally slaying "Kiss Me Deadly" at karaoke bar, being weird, Dance party-ing, full moon-bathing, reading in the backyard hammock...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Private?! I just answered a ton of random questions about blow jobs, politics, dietary preferences, virginity losing, drugs, my pets sleeping on the bed, and what I like on my pizza…
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like spontaneous combustion, quick change, mutable air energy...

You are authentic and truthful to yourself and others.

You are funny - no wait - HILARIOUS....

You are adventurous, sweet-hearted, and like to snuggle lots.

... you found me searching for "flying skateboards".....high fives.

You "like" me. I'm pretty like-able. If you give me a gold star.

Looking for real connections - friendships with the possibility of more.

Please no messages if :
-You listed "air" as one of the things you can't live without....ummm....
-You aren't wearing any shirts ever or all your profile pics are bathroom selfies.
-You have no manners.
-Your profile says "just ask" for every section - the fuck?! Nope.