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36 Lexington, KY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25–45
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
May 1
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body type
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Mostly non-monogamous
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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***visiting Bay Area 2/17-24!
Headed to Austin in end of March - HONKfest!
Savannah GA in April
Asheville in May
Back to the Bay in July....
Black Rock City in August....
Kentucky in the meantimes

Goddess of chaos. Joyful noise. Bike angel. Sister Provocateur. Pirate mermaid. Playful Kitten. Street Music. Benignly Unhinged. Kentucky Sunshine. Southern Hospitality.

Can carry almost everything I need ever in my boots

MUSICIAN!!!! Caution. Or not. Plays with street bands. Shares the flask. Perpetuates the grooves,

Friendship first.
Hopeless Romantic.
Choosy Hedonista.
GGG in the Dan Savage way.

I'm a fan of emotionally mature open relationships. Clear communication skills are sexy. I have a few "intimate friendships" with amazing people who live in amazing places around the world. I date open-minded, open-hearted (and sometimes openly married) people.

I'm open to finding a long term partner but not in a rush. Love shows up in all sorts of ways, and I'm keen on appreciating it every day.

Companion animal. I love collaborative projects - art, farming, music, life in general.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Healing Arts
Burning Man
Foxy Flautist
Minding my Manners

Work with a big fun summer Flow Arts Festival

Writing and Music and writing music. For work and play and playful work.

co-operative small scale urban farming with friends. Organic gardening, chicken raising, slinking further away from "the grid," sustainability, fire tending, tree-hugging.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Building spectacular fire breathing magical things.
Choosing my own adventures.
Cheering people up.
Dance parties.
Literary analysis.
Rocking out.
Petting cats.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Glasses, Tattoos, and Sparkles.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Music is intense territory.
My life includes lots of playing and performing. I used to tour lots but now I prefer to stay put longer between sets. These days I'm highly involved with the punk rock marching band/street musician scene (HONK!). . Black Rock City Orphan Band, EE, MMMB.... etc....
Inspired by: all the Honk bands, Electro-Swing, New Orleans party brass, Hot 8, Rebirth, March Fourth Marching Band.
I like: Rockabilly, gypsy punk, ukelele fun, garage rock, classical, vintage country, sassy girl bands, and much more.
Likey: The New York Dolls, X, Pixies, Bowie, Ramones, Wanda Jackson, Loretta Lynn, Imelda May, Buddy Holly, Elvis Costello, Grandaddy, Noisettes, Janelle Monae, Neko Case, Lucky Soul, Rilo-Kiley, The Smiths, Bassnectar, ABBA, Lily Allen, Robyn, Beats Antique, Mayer Hawthorne, Girl in a Coma, Detroit Cobras, Gorillaz, Feist, Postal Service...(you get the idea well enough to know if our record collections will get along)

I have a healthy appreciation for rock n' roll. Also, hot guys and gals with guitars....'nuff said.

TeeVee :
I don't have one in my house. But I watch TV on the Internet sometimes.
Firefly, 30Rock, Battlestar G, Freaks and Geeks, Top Gear (BBC), Animals doing funny stuff….

I have too many of them in my house.
Bookshelf view on relationships -
"The Ethical Slut" and "Sex After Dawn"

Random Reccomendation:
"The Elegance of the Hedgehog" by Muriel Barbery - profound take on friendships, truth, beauty, and self-expression

"If you go home with somebody and they don't have books, don't fuck 'em." -John Waters

Food.....I was too busy reading and forgot about dinner again....or, was reading at the bar and forgot what I even ordered so it's a surprise!....
Conscientious but not picky. Appreciate goooooood food and tend to be charmed by chefs and kitchen witches....
Cave person cuisine. Piles of nuts and berries. I love eating out - mainly because I'm rarely inspired to cook. I like fresh food from local sources. I sometimes just stand in my yard and eat food directly out of the garden.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Burning Man - freedom. Creative expression. Mega art. Giant pirate ship cars. Making out under the much to love.
2. My glasses - I actually need them to see anything further than 2" from my nose
3. Bicycles - riding cures many ills
4. Stellar friends/family and a personal/professional social network with integrity
5. Music - it's in my bones.
6. CATS - I have three and love them very much. If the mere sight of cats sends you into allergic death spasms then my apartment is not a hospitable zone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sweeping Feminine cheekbones with soft apple cheeks and dimples....
Running away with the circus.
The many things and people I have to be grateful for.
Making a positive difference in this world in any way possible and inspiring others to do the same....and being badass when I do it.
Flying skateboards
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Cruising around downtown on bicycle, totally slaying "Kiss Me Deadly" at karaoke bar, Dance party-ing, Ringmistress MCing an urban circus, full moon-bathing, reading in the backyard hammock...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Private?! I just answered a ton of random questions about blow jobs, politics, dietary preferences, virginity losing, drugs, my pets sleeping on the bed, and what I like on my pizza…

Ok. I can't stand UK basketball. I don't mind hanging out with people who love it sometimes. But I have to stay away from unknown Cats fans during bleed blue fury so I don't accidentally start bar fights. If the Cats are winning, everybody's happy, if they are losing, I suddenly live in a town full of hostile strangers.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're funny. No, wait - HILARIOUS.

You are adventurous, sweet-hearted, and like to snuggle lots.

You wanna rock out. Bonus points if you can give me a trumpet lesson. I'm learning…

... you found me searching for "flying skateboards," I already love you, you're my soulmate.

You love cooking and would like to meet a gal who really appreciates home cooked meals

You "like" me. I'm pretty like-able.

Looking for real connections - friendships with the possibility of more. Take it or leave it.

Please no messages if :
-You listed "air" as one of the things you can't live without....ummm....
-You aren't wearing any shirts ever or all your profile pics are bathroom selfies.
-You have no manners.
-You don't have something relevant to say about my profile or why we ought to be friends. "what's up?" or "u r hott" doesn't go far.
-Your profile says "just ask" for every section - the fuck?! Who has time for that?!