I'm currently living with my family in Ann Arbor. As they only moved here a couple years ago, I have very few friends. Needless to say, I'd like more.
A good story that shows the kind of competitor I am: growing up my brother (three years junior) and I played hockey (I still play, but I used to too). I noticed my dad would motivate my brother to score goals/points by rewarding him with m&ms, and later dollar bills. I asked him why he never did that with me. His answer was simple, I didn't question it, and never brought it up again. He didn't need to. I never needed extra motivation. He did occasionally get mad at me for not trying hard enough though. I still call bullshit on that.
Also, people seem to like me because I am polite and I am rarely late. I like to eat ice cream and I really enjoy a nice pair of slacks.
So according to OkCupid, I'm in the top half of the sites most attractive users. So I've got that going for me, which is nice.