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JLaigaie

21 / M / Gay / Single

Bellingham, Washington

His Details

Last Online
Today – 9:17am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Aries but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on two-year college
Job
Student
Income
Less than $20,000
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm kind of an asshole. I get that quite often. But I'm working on it. So no worries, I promise to be nice to you.

I'm honest, almost to a fault. I'm open about most things. I've been trying to see the beauty in everything.

I'm often told that I'm funny, and that I tend to repeat stories. If this is to ever happen just tell me. At first I'll ask if I can tell it anyways. Just say no. Or you'll hear it for ever. And I won't be offended if you say no.

I grew up in the deep south, New England, a tropical island, and here, in boring old Bellingham. I am a mixture of white trash and euro trash. New Jersey and England. I can understand the most difficult accents. I think these two cultures are what contributes to the first sentence I wrote on this page. We are an abrasive people.
What I’m doing with my life
Right now I'm studying biology, but that's just as a back up degree. Don't get me wrong, I'm a total nerd and I love science, but what I'm really hoping for is to get into law school. My goal in life is to become a prosecutor for either sex crimes or bias crimes. I really want to be able to give a voice to the voiceless. As well I'd eventually (as in once I'm financially secure) like to start doing civil rights law pro bono.
I’m really good at
I'm surprisingly good at remembering the plot to basically every cartoon I've ever seen. I've also been told recently by my professor that I'm a very good writer. She said, and I quote, "I ride along on my great skill as a writer even though it is obvious that I don't have any background information on the topic I am writing about." Still got an A...so...knowing things isn't necessary?
The first things people usually notice about me
I've never asked anyone this question, so I really don't know. If you ever notice me, you should tell me. I'll put it on here.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Odyssey (All time favorite), Les Mis, The Goosebump books, Beowulf

Television: X-men cartoons, Law and Order: SVU, Freaks and Geeks, Shameless, Torchwood, Dr. Who, Courage the Cowardly Dog, It's Always Sunny, Buffy the Vampire Slayer

Movies: Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Remember the Titans, Wrist-cutters: A Love Story, Scream, Halloween, Horror movies in general, and just movies that spur conversations.

Music: The Beatles, Simon and Garfunkle, Queen, way too much to list.
The six things I could never do without
I need: 1. People, I'm a social creature and I need to be around others. 2. Deep conversations, I like to feed my mind. I can't get myself to feel passionate about small talk. 3. Charlie, my ferret. She's amazing. 4. Music, which is a cliche answer, but I sometimes need it in order to feel. 5. Cough Syrup. 6. Anastasia Dawn St. Claire. We plan on going to our ten year high school reunion together, we've already developed our cover story for if we don't amount to much. It's pretty epic if you're interested.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
everything. I sometimes script out how I think life will go. Like if it were a movie.

My mind races so fast. It's like I'm constantly on speed, but don't worry, I'm not.
On a typical Friday night I am
standing on a taco truck till 3 am.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That a friend of mine and I have a comic book in which we are superheroes.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Honestly I've been thinking about what I want in someone else. I like shaggy hair. And blue eyes. You know, those cold, deep, chilling ones. That like pierce through you. But I could really care less about those things.

I like people who can actually hold a conversation. I'm tired of asking questions and just getting a "yeah" back. It's so disappointing.

I also prefer guys who could pass for straight. I don't do well with talk about fashion, or lady gaga, or gossip girl, or other stuff like that. I'd rather talk about sports, or comic books, or the world. I have nothing against gay guys, I just never have a real opinion on the stereotypical topics, and it's hard to get passionate about things you have no opinion on. Plus, I guess I just don't find femininity as sexy. Maybe that's why I'm gay.