I am rather sarcastic, somewhat naive, and utterly altruistic.
My Self-Summary
I tried coming up with something good here, but instead, let's try
a run at this "stream of consciousness" style;
Basically my life consists of working for a non-profit and helping
out a bunch of others, one of my friends once said "oh man, don't
geek out on me" and since then I try to own it when I do, I'm just
finished a half triathlon and am casually training for next year
(and for the benefits that increased endurance offers... ahem), I
prefer dark beer or gin & tonics when I do drink (though it
seems a significant majority of society drinks more than I do), I'm
oddly partial to a clean/fancy bathroom (and have specific plans
for my dream home), my car stereo plays a CD primarily consisting
of free songs from
the Current's song of the day
podcast, I have a motorcycle that is just barely more fun to ride
than it is a big hassle in general (but makes me look seriously bad
ass... I'm also hoping to sell it next year and build an electric
motorcycle), I've already changed careers once but I'm sure I'm on
the right track now, at any time I'm slowly working on a handful of
crafty/artsy projects, I'm in three book clubs (one meets in a bar
but still three is probably a warning sign for something) and I
write (but haven't done so substantially in far too long), I've
never been an aggressive asshole but I've come to realize that the
aggressive part isn't the problem with that type of guy that I
should avoid mimicking, my friends insist all of life's problems
would be solved if I moved to uptown, I have a sweet/romantic side
but it takes the right person to coax it out, I have a salacious
side but it takes even more of the right kind of person to see
that, I get bored when there's nothing new to learn, I have a lime
tree and an avocado tree (the former does produce fruit at this
time, the latter I've grown from a pit), I'm always down for a game
of
scrabble or
darts (and wouldn't mind being beaten), I lived in Australia for
four months of 2004, I'm (extremely) slowly learning Japanese,
summer is weekly kickball games (sometimes with theme nights) with
my friends, in my account settings on OkCupid I set it to use
metric
What I’m doing with my life
see self-summary
I’m really good at
thinking up projects to do, places to go, things to try, etc. I'm
also pretty handy, in that sort of "indispensible, useful to have
around during and after the zombie apocalypse" sort of way.
The first things people usually notice about me
I tend to over think things a bit, the whole "it's better to say
nothing and be thought a fool than to open your mouth and remove
all doubt" sort of thing. So at first I can come off a bit aloof or
cold.
Or, if you're jumping to judgement even quicker than an initial
social interaction, well then, I guess people also notice I'm tall.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Invisible Monsters by Chuck Palahniuk has a writing style that is
fantastic
The Great Escape has Steve McQueen as a divisive, crafty chemical
engineer with a sweet ass motorcycle... it's down right
inspirational.
Foo Fighters and the better half of what's been available on The
Current's podcast song of the day
Eat food, not too much, mostly plants... that last part can be
tough
The six things I could never do without
1. a nice day to be outside every once and a while
2. my laptop (internet included)
3. a bed large enough for me to spread out on
4. a creative outlet
5. friends
6. someone I haven't met yet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
what I should do next. Which can be a problem since too much
thinking and not enough doing is rather useless. I try not to be
too useless.
On a typical Friday night I am
doing a variety of things that fall between sitting at home
watching my plants grow and going out and starting drunken bar
fights.
Please note that I neither watch my plants grow or start bar
fights... these are merely bookends to the spectrum of my life's
Friday night possibilities.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
I may not be as awesome as I think I am. I've just had a tough time
coming up with a proper statistical analysis to validate or dismiss
my claims.
I also have a quixotic view on love. It really doesn't seem to help
things.
You should message me if
you are:
a female
single
not significantly older or younger than me
crafty enough to
build something with your hands
smart enough to outwit me
quirky enough to
geek
out on at least one subject
attractive enough to make me nervous
forward enough to cut through my lame nervousness
active enough to be willing to sweat a bit
soft enough to be pleasant through a good cuddle
hard enough to call me out if I'm being lame
green enough to
consider biking a valid form of transportation
thrifty enough to get a bit excited by a good deal
restless enough to seriously consider a trip on impulse
confident enough to know you're not terribly confident
and generally fairly awesome.
I float around this site randomly and indecisively. All of this
just isn't terribly tangible. I kind of think we could message/chat
for months and yet it wouldn't be as productive as a single
face-to-face conversation. And so I read through profiles and
entertain thoughts of what you might really be like and... that's
about it usually. Still, if you think that together we would meet
or exceed how awesome you are on your own, you should message me. I
do promise to get back to you in a somewhat reasonable time frame.
That's just common courtesy. Though a friend has told me I have the
most hectic schedule she's ever seen, so please forgive my
shortcomings and delays.