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41 Saint Louis, MO Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:48am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Portuguese (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Polyamorous & seeking like-minded individuals. "Open Relationship" does not mean casual sex, affairs, or hook-ups. Don't know what this means? Please ask...

I'm a student of the world, speaking several languages and interested in all cultures. There are many places I've been, and many more yet to experience. I'm following my bliss.

I keep balanced by exercise, good nutrition, positive energy, and seeing the glass always half-full. There is good in every person...everyone is fighting their own internal battle. Be kind & compassionate to others. Meditate. Do yoga. Breathe.

It's not the mountains that trip you up; it's the pebbles in your shoes. Thing is, life and love are full of pebbles.

Always take the road less traveled. Take risks. Be the one who volunteers while others sulk in the back row. Don't be afraid to suffer once in a while. It will make you tougher. Wear your heart on your sleeve sometimes.

Work hard, have goals, find something that makes you happy and gives back to society in some way. Make your footprint on the world more than just consuming. Make your resume your life...a career is nice to have...but it's just a job. It's not you.

Write a letter to yourself from 10 years ago and instruct yourself to be kinder, gentler. Then read it and do it.

Everyone is living their own story; their lives do not revolve around you. Be kind to don't know their story for today and it might be harder than you think.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Giving a 6-year old Boxer rescue dog a second chance at life.

Learning about myself as a spiritual being.

Connecting with others and seeing the good in people.

Finding ways to give back and build sustainability.

Living my own Hero's Journey and listening to others' stories.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm an incredibly good cook. Breakfast food is one of my specialties...I make the world's best pancakes, period. It's not uncommon for me to receive marriage proposals after serving them.

And in no apparent order...

- Making people feel comfortable
- Connecting the dots
- Making sense from abstract things & ideas
- Getting it done
- Making a plan, sticking to it
- Taking a breather
- Giving compliments
- Showing affection and gratitude
- Kissing
- Cleaning up after myself (most of the time. After all, I am a boy.)
- Thinking & pondering
- Self-improvement
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a great sense of fashion for a straight guy...and I look cute in glasses. Athletic build, strong arms, shoulders, chest, and a nice butt (so I'm told) :)

But after talking for just a bit, people find that I am empathetic, a great listener, introspective, and can hold a really intelligent conversation. I'm personable and can make friends and relate to just about anyone.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My iPod has everything from classic French music to Dave Matthews to Metallica to Zac Brown Band. And yes, I have a few Lady Gaga songs. There, I admitted it.

I am a foodie...I'm been fortunate to travel across the world and have the chance to try so many cuisines. My favorites are Thai, Vietnamese, and Mexican. I also love Middle Eastern food...especially good hummus. And I love to cook it all, so be sure to put your order in!

My literary endeavors right now are divided between several books, "A People's History of the United States", "This Explains Everything", "Elle S'Appellait Sarah", "El Patron de Mal"...all totally different books but equally enthralling.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The five senses
My favorite pancake flipper
Intimacy and sex (both are important)
Intelligent conversation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How short life each moment to the fullest and don't worry about the past or what has happened. We craft our own future in real time so if you want to see yourself in a different future, act in the present
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Fridays are usually low-key, for example dinner with friends or a movie. I'm not big into the bar scene anymore but love finding new restaurants.

Lately I've been hanging out with my new dog to acclimate him to his new cozy, posh lifestyle and surroundings :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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When my time is up, will I be able to say that I've accomplished what I was supposed to do? Was everything part of a grand plan?

I have songs by One Direction and Lady Gaga in my collection. I find them snazzy and catchy :)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have a kind heart. You're compassionate, sweet, and caring. You consider others' feelings as valuable as your own. You value making others happy, while maintaining diverse interests to keep yourself satiated. You're a giver, and seek nothing in return.

If you share the same passion for life and experience that I do...if you see the world as your playground with all of its texture and depth. You enjoy travel and getting out to see the world and do exciting things. You are open minded to possibilities and what could be.

You want to go rock climbing...I always welcome new climbing buddies.

You are open to a polyamorous relationship and not the traditional monogamous kind that we're all taught to believe is the only way.