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JMRandom1

24 / F / straight / Single

Seaford, New York

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 5" (1.65m).
Body Type
Overweight
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism but not too serious about it
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Sign_Language (Okay)

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I am kind, silly, and dorky.

My Self-Summary

Hmm, well lets see. First off I'm 24 years old and I'm from Seaford, New York. I love to laugh. I love to smile. I really enjoy driving down Ocean Parkway at night blasting music and singing at the top of my lungs. It can make the worst day seem like nothing. I'm a huge dork and I am constantly involved with a book. I'm one of those people who carry a book around with them at all times... just in case. Music is life... I can't go a day without listening to it. It provides a soundtrack to the happy times and acts as a friend in the hard times. I spent a good five years of my life working on and off at Blockbuster Video. Therefore I am *mildly* obsessed with movies.

Clearing this up right now... I am not looking for a random fling. Seriously guys? There are more of us single females out there then you single men. All of us ladies are looking for decent men. Why don't you cut the crap and put your best foot forward. Maybe you'll actually get laid. :)

With that said... I've got to be honest. I'm totally a relationship person. I'm looking for someone to cuddle up on the couch with and watch a movie. Someone to hold hands with and someone to love. However, I love making new friends and meeting new people. So, even if you're not interested in dating me... lets see if we can be buddies!

What I’m doing with my life

I just graduated in May 2008 with my B.S.W. from Molloy College. Currently I work for YAI/NIPD. I am a full time PM counselor in two group homes for adults with Developmental Disabilities.

I really love the work that I do. No day is ever the same. Sure, it can be challenging and some days I want to pull my hair out. Yet, on the days you can see the difference you are making in these lives it makes EVERYTHING worth it.

I’m really good at

Listening. I am truly interested in what people have to say. I also consider myself very open minded and patient. These qualities are what lead me towards Social Work. :)

The first things people usually notice about me

I saw someone else with this answer and realized... yeah I should probably put that too. My weight. I am a kick ass person, and yes I am a fat chick. Just wanted to get that out of the way so we can move on to become friends... maybe more. :)

Also, My smile. Since I was a kid everyone has noticed my "cheesy smile".

I've also been told my hair smells fantastic a lot lately.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

This section is going to be the toughest for me... since I love so many books, movies and bands.

*Books: All the Harry Potter books, The Sookie Stackhouse novels, She's Come Undone, Local Girls, Prozac Nation, Unthinkable Thoughts of Jacob Green, Tuesdays with Morrie, The Perks of Being a Wallflower, The Catcher in the Rye, A Million Little Pieces, Nick and Norah's Infinite Playlist, Angels and Demons, and of course The Notebook and Twilight Series. No, I'm not ashamed!!

*Authors: Alice Hoffman, Nicholas Sparks, Dan Brown, Jane Green, Charlaine Harris... and more.

*Movies: Chasing Amy, Chicago, When Harry Met Sally, Mystic River, Robin Hood Men in Tights, Monty Python and the Holy Grail, Meet the Parents, Meet the Fockers, 50 First Dates, The Wedding Singer, Billy Madison, Happy Gilmore, Better off Dead, Say Anything, Breakfast Club, Labrynth, Clerks, Jersey Girl, Mallrats, Jay and Silent Bob Strike Back, An Evening with Kevin Smith, Garden State, Zorro the Gay Blade, Hairspray, Superbad, Knocked Up, Step-Brothers, Batman Begins, Dark Knight, Forgetting Sarah Marshall, He's Just Not That Into You, Zack and Miri Make a Porno, I love you, Man... and I know I'm forgetting some....

*Music: The Ataris, The Used, Taking Back Sunday, Anberlin, Slipknot, Backstreet Boys (shhh don't judge me. I was a teenager once.), Dashboard Confessional, Brand New, Billy Joel, The Beatles, Thursday, Green Day, Coheed and Cambria, RENT, No Doubt, Hairspray (movie and original), HSM1, 2 & 3, The Academy is..., Dropout Year, The Apathy Eulogy, The Material... and of course more...

*Television: True Blood, How I Met Your Mother, The Big Bang Theory, Scrubs, King Of Queens, One Tree Hill, That 70s Show, Degrassi: The Next Generation, Arrested Development, The Fresh Prince...

*Food: There are no favorites... although I am partial to Italian food.

The six things I could never do without

*1- Hope
*2- My Cell Phone
*3- Chapstick
*4- A great book.
*5- My amazing friends
*6- My iPod

I spend a lot of time thinking about

... I try and keep my focus on whatever is going on at the moment. I have a tendency to day dream and bounce from thought to thought. Silly ADD. :)

Seriously though. I think like most people I think about about my future and how I'm going to get there.

On a typical Friday night I am

The weekends are usually spent with friends. Some night hanging out at someones house playing video games, board games, poker, watching movies.. etc. Other nights we might be found in a bar. Let's play it be ear.

But I'll tell you this... no matter what... it is Le-gen-da-ry!

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm on a dating site. Shhh! Don't tell anyone, ok?

You should message me if

You're a genuine person. You have a sense of humor and like to laugh and live life with a smile on your face. If you're looking for something serious... that's fantastic. If you're looking for someone to chat with and maybe a new friend... that's great too! Just please be upfront and honest about any and all intentions you might have. No one likes drama. :D