Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'd like to think that I am one of the Most genuine, honest and
outgoing gentlemen to currently grace the Earth (thanks to a proper
I'm single, which means I'm alone. That's not a bad thing,
gentleman. Independence is attractive. I work to better myself each
day. Be the awesome guy that you hope to find in someone else.
Respect everybody, as almost everyone is deserving of respect.
Smile. Every day is a great day, folks just need to find the right
I come from a family of firefighters and people with big
I was born on a cattle ranch in Roswell, New Mexico.
Our family homesteaded that ranch and we still run cattle on the
From there I’ve lived in Alaska, California, Nevada and went to
high school in Idaho.
During high school I broke my neck competing in a wrestling
After making a full recovery, I became a sports medic, EMT, and
ultimate geek as a high school debate and competitive speech champ.
I also dabbled in track & field.
From Idaho I left to George Washington University in DC, where I
studied international affairs and US history and held internships
in various political offices.
Aside from studying in college, I became a front doorman (a
"refined" bouncer at the front door of clubs). I worked the front
door at some of DC’s most popular night clubs and venues and
learned the security and hospitality trade craft.
During the hot summers I returned out west and worked as a wildland
firefighter. I also picked up studying kung fu and Brazilian jiu
Going to college at GW availed me of numerous other opportunities,
adventures and endeavors.
I went to law school in Boston upon graduating college. I continued
to work as a front doorman at some high end venues and accomplished
a few clerkships during my summers. I worked with landlord/tenant
laws, civil service employment and federal courts. During school I
also joined a gay softball team and became our pitcher and
I graduated law school in 2009. About a year later I moved to a
small county in New York, where I assumed a position as an
Assistant District Attorney. I was one of 7 ADAs and prosecuted
every misdemeanor and felony that occurred in my assigned towns and
villages. I also became a volunteer local structure firefighter and
became certified to go into the interior of burning buildings,
fought fires and responded to motor vehicle accidents. I also
studied fire arson investigation. Maybe one day my legal career
will merge with my passion for firefighting.
In 2012 I returned to Boston to practice criminal defense, and I
also managed security at a bar on the weekends. I was also a
My professional outlook continues to change with my
Gym every (other) day, at least. Summer 6-pack goals~!
What I’m doing with my life
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I recently returned to Roswell, New Mexico, in order to continue
working as a prosecutor, to be closer to family and to do a job
that matters. I primarily prosecute juvenile offenders and adult
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my smile or my positive attitude
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Numerous topics ranging from history to present events.
I love Mexican food (and Mexicans)
I grew up listening to and loving country music, learned the rap
game while bouncing in clubs, and am now taking in the melodies of
As for books... every newspaper.
I listen to SCOTUS and SJC oral arguments and read court decisions
I like audio books. I can be a lazy/distracted reader
I'd like to read a few more biographies. Hamilton and Marshall have
been recently recommended.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My flashlight and knife. Not to sound too crazy but both are always
with me. If I can see it, I can fix it, night or day.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to make things better.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Being low-key, solo unfortunately.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I give most people on this website 3 stars.
You should message me if
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You think that you are the perfect guy for me.
My perfect guy would have to be great in so many respects, so that
my heart would be convinced that it needed to look no farther. I
wouldn't expect a guy to be perfect, but his faults couldn't lie in
key areas, such as honesty, integrity, or loyalty. He would need to
be naturally beautiful in my eyes, which defies type-setting. I've
seen true awesome beauty in twinks and bears, black and white and
everywhere in between. Their beauty would need to be natural and
unique. On top of that, they would need to respect themselves, love
themselves and take care of themselves both mentally and
health-wise. It's hard to love someone who doesn't love themselves.
Knowing that I want such a great and perfect guy, I know that I
must work to be that which I desire. Because to truly have an equal
in a man, I need to share those characteristics. I also need to
pull my own weight and keep his attention. You can't become lazy to
keep the perfect man. A truly perfect man would be someone who has
a good character, that is, that they are not inherently evil or
deceitful. They aren't likely to hide anything. I can usually
figure out people pretty quick in this regard. A truly perfect guy
would be someone what I can instantly relate to, build trust and
that the chemistry/trust would be natural, second nature. A truly
perfect guy recognizes that trust must be built and maintained, but
doesn't make a big deal about it. I don't like being actually
chased or obsessed over. I think a perfect guy shows enough
affection but doesn't give away the farm. I'm sure that there's
more... of course.
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