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29 Ridgewood, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Feb 2015: At the moment I'm working long days most of the week, at least til late Feb. So not available to meet up for coffee/chat/drinks until then. Down to chat and see if we may get along first though.


I'm an artist, making a living with my own work through various mediums when I can. Also manage an artist's studio in Brooklyn, as well as pick up other side jobs in the art world sporadically. Have met some of my best friends through various jobs I've had.

In my free time I'm usually making art, cooking, training in martial arts, or having dinner and drinks with friends. I tend to be way behind on all the 'must watch' shows, and my friends often have me watch episodes of shows when I'm at their houses. There's this perpetual interest with some for seeing my reaction to events in shows.
(note: I still haven't finished watching Breaking Bad.... I know)

Definitely enjoy geeky things, comics, games, and science fiction. Also love real science. Biology and the plethora of various species around the world, and how bizarre and alien life in our world can be.

INFP, if you're interested

If you want to see what I do and find entertaining, check my Instagram @James_Groeling

Have questions? Feel free to ask.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Figuring it out one day at a time.
Working, making things, and trying to stay in the moment and enjoy things.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Using my hands.
Dropping obscure movie references into conversation.
Sporadically speaking in random accent.
Have been told that my humor can be dry/sarcastic/vulgar/hysterical, so apparently funny can happen (just not in written form, as I'm more of a showman apparently)
Listening to people when they need to vent.
Being a pillow for people and animals (I radiate a lot of body heat, and that makes me a very warm snuggle buddy)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Yes, I'm really 6'2", and I'm a biped mammal of the male gender. The whiskers give it away.

-"No, really, you are a gentleman. The classic sexy kind, but with a dirty, filthy mind. In a good way." ~ A friend.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Ask me, had a long list of stuff and the messages I got were complaints that I enjoyed a certain book or movie.

This is why we can't have nice things.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
sketchbook, pen, deliciousness, a snuggle partner (be that a friend, an animal [real or cotton], a lover, or otherwise), unlimited metrocard, contacts/glasses.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
All of the things. I ponder a lot. Pensive might be a better description, but Space Cadet is sometimes a term that has been used to describe me.

Right now I'm thinking of the profiles where people write, "I don't bite." And I'm wondering, "Why the hell not?"
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Somewhere doing something.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I: curse, am a real person, often disdain autocorrect, have flaws, eat crappy food sometimes, occasionally screw up, occasionally screw up a kitchen experiment, will eat my own bad food experiments (most of the time), can be painfully honest at times, have made money nude, consider a struggle in life worth the outcome, have lived through some things, aim to improve myself (but don't always succeed for a while), am worth getting to know.
You should message me if
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You're doing your squats.