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49 M Vallejo, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:18pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Human, above all else, living / breathing / thinking / feeling -- just like you.
What I’m doing with my life
… seeing where this ride goes.
I’m really good at
… asking questions, using (increasing) what I know, yet being in awe of the vastness which I do not.
The first things people usually notice about me
… i've been told that i'm "deviant, but not devious," and it comes across quickly. I'm comfortable with that.

I'm very curious. Music will often move me, while math, science and the wide array of individuals we cohabit our planet with inspire me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music: The Pixies, Ella Fitzgerald, Fates Warning, Om, Black Sabbath, Bikini Kill / Le Tigre / The Julie Ruin, Golden Palominos, Korallreven, Miranda Sex Garden, MBV, Indigo Girls, lots of others.

Movies: 2001: A Space Odyssey, Donnie Darko, The Devil's Backbone, The Tree Of Life, The Fountainhead, 21 Grams, Primer, Upstream Color

Books and authors: Carl Sagan, Naked Economics, Arthur C. Clarke, Thich Nhat Hanh, Yasunari Kawabata, Flatland, Neil Gaiman, David Sedaris, Warren Ellis, Preacher, Sandman, Ursula K. LeGuin ...

Podcasts: Wait Wait Don't Tell Me, Skeptics Guide to the Universe, Rationally Speaking, Point Of Inquiry, This American Life, Skeptoid, Stuff to Blow Your Mind, The Moth, EconTalk, Big Picture Science.

Food: I'm vegetarian, though not at all militant about it. Meaning, if you ask, i'll tell you my reasons for being one, but I don't proselytize it much and don't demand that everyone i'm around also be one.
The six things I could never do without
1. music
3. my Steinberger and Variax guitars, Virus & Motif synths, Mac and Logic Pro -- yes, i'm bundling all of these into one, for they form a union which allows me to create music
6. the beauty of the female voice (the music I create features it prominently, it has always moved me)

… the other 3 are variable.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
… light, math, how to get humanity to move a little faster (read: getting out to help push when needed), how to think more critically (a skill that _everyone_ should continue to develop) developmental economics, how to make the lens through which I see the world more accurate / less myopic.
On a typical Friday night I am
enjoying the warm contentment of a successful week. Not all weeks are, but most qualify.

Also, noodling (or developing if past the noodling stage) on guitar or synth, or -- lately, anyway -- practicing Spanish with friends in cafes around SF.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
is private (unless you're the NSA, in which case privacy is a concept you clearly do not understand).
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
… you believe not only in yourself, but humanity in general. Strongly.
… you regularly participate in music creation by playing an instrument or singing.
… you're into science, and can discern science from that which only pretends to be.
… the plight of those with the fewest opportunities in the world truly moves you.
… you are happy to live where you do but highly value experiencing the beauty of people, places and cultures aside from your own as well.