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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35-45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 25
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Average build
Special Diet
Atheism but it’s not important
Two-year college
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Japanese (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Human, above all else, living / breathing / thinking / feeling -- just like you.

Though many people don't feel that their personality graph matches them, i'm happy with mine. If you appreciate histograms, that'd be a good one to look at.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
seeking eudaemonia given the day-to-day variability of the world we live in.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
… asking questions, using (increasing) what I know, being intensely curious about the vastness which I do not, and being in awe of the myriad of paths that every moment can take to get to the next.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
… i've been told that i'm "deviant, but not devious," and it comes across quickly. I'm comfortable with that.

A lot of people notice the colorful math / astronomy / philosophy body art.

I'm very curious. Music will often move me, while math, science and the wide array of individuals we cohabit our planet with inspire me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Music: The Pixies, Ella Fitzgerald, Fates Warning, Om, Black Sabbath, Bikini Kill / Le Tigre / The Julie Ruin, Golden Palominos, Korallreven, Miranda Sex Garden, MBV, Sonic Youth, Indigo Girls, Asobi Seksu, lots of others.

Movies: 2001: A Space Odyssey, Contact, Donnie Darko, The Devil's Backbone, The Tree Of Life, The Fountainhead, 21 Grams, Primer, Upstream Color

Books and authors: Carl Sagan, Naked Economics, Arthur C. Clarke, Thich Nhat Hanh, Yasunari Kawabata, Flatland, Neil Gaiman, David Sedaris, Warren Ellis, Preacher, Sandman, Ursula K. LeGuin ...

Podcasts: Wait Wait Don't Tell Me, Skeptics Guide to the Universe, Rationally Speaking, Point Of Inquiry, This American Life, Stuff to Blow Your Mind, The Moth, EconTalk, Development Drums, Big Picture Science, The Partially Examined Life, youarenotsosmart, Philosophize This!

Food: I'm vegetarian, though not at all militant about it. Meaning, if you ask, i'll tell you my reasons for being one, but I don't proselytize it much and don't demand that everyone i'm around also be one.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. music
3. the tools that allow me to make music
6. the beauty of the female voice

… the other 3 are variable.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
… light, math, poetry, how to be a better person, how to get humanity to move a little faster (read: getting out to help push when needed), making life better for our human and non-human companions on this pale blue dot, creating sonic beauty from resonating strings and oscillators (and happily riffing out), metacognition i.e. how to think about thinking, identify and compensate for my biases, and think more critically (a skill that _everyone_ should continue to develop), developmental economics, how to make the lens through which I see the world more accurate / less myopic.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
enjoying the warm contentment of a successful week. Not all weeks are, but most qualify.

Also, noodling (or developing if past the noodling stage) on guitar or synth, or -- lately, anyway -- practicing Spanish with friends in cafes around SF.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
is private (unless you're the NSA, in which case privacy is a concept you clearly do not understand).
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
… first and foremost, that you believe not only in yourself, but humanity in general. Strongly. As in, _strongly_. We are one race with infinite variations, there are _billions_ of us, and we each have promise. If you advocate for the discrimination in any way of one group of humans based on something as trivial as skin color, religion, nationality, sexual orientation or gender identity, then move along, for there is nothing here for you.
... you believe that we can - and will - solve our own problems, because we've done it countless times in our history on this planet.
… you like to rock \m/
… you're into science / skepticism / critical thinking, and can discern science from pseudoscience / superstition / blind ideology.
… you consider the process to be as beautiful as the outcome.
… the plight of those with the fewest opportunities in the world moves you.
… you are happy to live where you do but highly value experiencing the beauty of people, places and cultures aside from your own as well.