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JMay8

33 M Springfield, VA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:50am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Life happens while your trying to accomplish your goals.

That has been on my mind recently and it just goes to affirm for me that while the path I am on might not be where I intended, where I am is just fine and maybe just where I need to be right now. I remember an assignment in my Senior English class from High School. My teacher wanted us to write a letter to ourselves 5 years down the road. I am not sure if he intended for us to remind ourselves what our goals were or to show us how things change, but I enjoy exercises like that because I get climpses of how events have effected me and the man that I have become.

I am certainly not perfect, but I know who I am and despite having some thing that I know I need to work on, I like who I am and where my life has brought me to be.

I am weird, interesting, and honest
What I’m doing with my life
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I moved back to the DC area Apr 2010 and its been nice to be back around my family. It was a huge step for me to move back accross the country, but it has always felt like the right move and I am greatful for the way things have fallen in to place thus far. Work takes up a lot of my time as with a lot of people I am in a deadline driven industry, but while not working I try to live my life comfortably.

I do my best not to work on the weekends as I know I need time to recharge. Saturdays I usually leave time to hang out with my Nephew and my Sunday's are usually taken up serving at my church as part of the Worship and Media Arts Team. I sing as part of our Choir or fill my role as one of the Sound Techs for my church. Even if not serving that week I am most likely seen at church on Sunday as it has become an important part of my life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I would like to think that there are a few gifts that I have been granted that make my life what it is.

I am a technical person and picking up new technology has always come fairly easy to me. I am a visual thinker, so I often translate what someone tells me in to images that I see in my mind's eye. I believe that this helps me to pick up on explainations from others fairly quickly. I may tend to be closed off about how I feel about things, but that is mainly because I don't want others to worry about my problems. On the other side of that coin I am usually pretty empathetic and can tell when others are feeling down or upset.

When asked (and sometimes when not) I will give my honest opinion about a situation. I try to see things from all angles and give and outside perspective. I have been told that I give good advice as a result of this, but that advice is usually what needs to be heard, not always what people want to hear.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I haven't asked anyone in a long time, but most recently I have been prone to wearing fedoras and I have been told that I pull them off well, which is probably why I keep wearing them! ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Ender's Game Series/Belgaraid and Malorean Series

I am all over the place with movies, but John Cusak and Jack Black movies work for me. That might explain why I like High Fidelity sooo much!

I listen to a little bit of everything except country. I run sound for my church and I find that I tend to prefer the up tempo stuff, but I am also particular about lyrics and I have a need to be able to discern a meaning from what I hear.

Living in San Diego I had come to really appreciate Mexican food but impossible to find since moving back to DC. Thankfully I am always down for a good burger, pizza, and being that I am Italian I love me some pasta and seafood.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Droid Phone (phone, music, email and more), family, my dog, stimulation, DVR, me time to relax
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The past. I reflect on where I came from amd how my life could have been different

The present. What am I doing with my life, could I be doing more?

The future. What next?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday nights can vary, sometimes I go out, sometimes I don't, but I am open for most things, just depends on mood for the most part.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have issues, but who doesn't right? I have grown to be pretty balanced, but I am not perfect and I know this.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
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Something sparks your interest....I don't know what with as outdated as this information is, but I am always up for meeting new people and even some slight people watching. I hope to write a book in the near future so I try to take in as much of the interesting things that life has to offer as I can.

Thanks for your time and take care,
-J