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25 London, UK Genderfluid


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–25
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 24
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm Jo ( Joseph ) 25, from South West London. I'm a guy who's gender fluid from time to time or whenever I want to
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
while tired i erased this part yesterday 19 / 01 / 2015 by mistake. I'll just put this for the moment I work security, and I do tons of extra curricular.

as I write this I have just discovered okcupid changed the gender options etc so I can put gender fluid at last, time to party it up
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
i guess i'm patient, open minded to the ways of others. Good at working through things that come up.

I make tons of things from props to models, to support extra curricular things
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
honestly no clue, my open mind or confidence ( not over confidence tho )
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Food , anything other than turkey or pork is cool ( i miss bacon )

Fave movies are probably The Postman, Terminator Salvation, House of the Flying D, though I'm guessing there were more recent movies that would be there, just can't think of them. Yes there are Elysium, Edge of Tomorrow, Buffalo Soldiers ( top comedy ) , Serenity maybe. There are props others

too many tv series to mention at once, though Supernatural, Fringe, Mock the Week, 8 Out of 10 Cats, Viscious, the Apprentice, Firefly, the X Files, Dexter, Better off Ted, Castle, Person of Interest, Defiance, The Newsroom, the Mentalist, Game of Thrones, White Collar, Suits, Battlestar Galactica, Farscape

oh and something I'm trying out is anime

Books ( once in a while ) The Magician, Silverthorn, Stainless Steel Rat series, Harry Harrison, Jack Higgins, Terry Pratchett, Mortal Engines, plus many others

Computer Games I play the Xbox 360. I play strategy, rpg, fps etc
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Good people to work with, meet etc

2. Tea . . what . . i'm English

3. my computer ( the web )

4. music

5. making things

6. tea ( so i put tea twice , well it is tea )
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Ways to make more out of this world, ways to make more out of myself.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
whatever ( my work is contract based opt in or out work, this means while I get plenty of time off I can't know if it'll include the weekend. It does this week, tho I might work the next Saturday. No such thing as a typical Friday night with my work :p
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
whatever, in pretty open
You should message me if
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you want to :p

Or if you know of any gender fluid or other hang outs, meet ups etc in the city? I have no gender fluid friends, and it would cool to meet up with like minded people. Please message me if you know anywhere


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