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39 North Yarmouth, ME Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 18
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Other and it’s important
Post grad
Wants kids
My self-summary
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I am an outgoing person who is kind and fun! I feel strongly about social justice (equity in education, in particular, but other forms of justice, too), treating the earth with reverence, and that disco is not dead. I have recently decided that eating good food with friends and sweating in nature are basically all I need to be happy, so I try to do those two things as much as possible.

I've been in the dating world for a long time, and I'm ready to find a great person that I can commit to, love, and learn from. Bring it on!

Also, I still miss Philip Seymour Hoffman. :)
What I’m doing with my life
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For work, I'm an educational consultant--supporting teachers, schools, and districts to better serve low-income kids. Other than work, I like to be with family and friends, go on fun dates with you, play and run around, cut wood with my maul, work on a close-by farm (I helped castrate a pig once, but mostly I help them weed), hike and run in the woods, and explore fun places in Portland I haven't been to yet.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
rowing boats, middle school math, baking pies, making costumes out of stuff in my basement, helping teachers get better, and following through with a plan. I'm about to become a beekeeper. I'm not yet good at that.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm super blonde, and pretty enthusiastic.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Wind-Up Bird Chronicle, The Known World, The God of Small Things, Officer Friendly, English Patient, Middlesex, In Cold Blood, Moby Dick.

Movies: Her, Bridesmaids, Magnolia, Station Agent, Win Win, The Fifth Element, Moulin Rouge, Casino Royale, The Departed, 28 Days Later, You Can Count on Me, Mystic River, etc...

Also, I love sports movies...who doesn't love overcoming adversity? Some favorites: Breaking Away, Remember the Titans, Girlfight, Rocky, and Miracle.

Music: Music like Stevie Wonder, disco, MJ, funk, soul, hip-hop, house. Also, Metric, Lucinda Williams, The Killers, the Ting Tings, Beyonce.

Food: Mmmm, food. I love food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
trees, friends and family, running in the woods, stupid jokes, school reform
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I guess I think a lot about where my most recent life changes are going to take me. I also think about where my keys are. And when I will be in the woods next. And should I text you? Is it too soon? (I'm not that suave when it comes to dating, FYI. I can be kind of over-excited about's just how I am, but I realize it doesn't help my dating efforts. Argh!) And I sometimes think about school reform or my new hot blue leather jacket. Ok, it's pleather.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
working on a project with my roomies, watching a movie, going to bed early, cooking dinner for friends, going to SPACE, or if I can rally my friends, going out dancing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You have a kissing booth story to look forward to...
You should message me if
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you're kind, honest, fun(ny), up for adventure, and also looking for someone to build a kick-ass partnership with.