So I’ve been on and off this here Okcupid for a bit now… Most of the people I have met have become good friends. Some of whom I haven’t even come face to face with however, we’ll chat it up on the phone like a couple of schoolgirls. I get a kick out of all the horrifying date stories and countless inappropriate cell phone pics I hear from the girls I met on here. It’s no wonder most of you are so guarded on this website, can’t really say I blame you.
I don’t know… I’m really just not into the whole just here to hook up thing; I genuinely would like to meet someone, someone who is my best friend and more. That being said and while really considering a serious future with someone I do have to mention I am single father. I have an 7-year-old son who is the one true love of my life who I have 100% of the time. If that is too much for you I kindly ask you to click the top left “Okcupid” logo and restart your search for someone flexing his abs in the bathroom mirror.
Ok you’re still here? Alrighty then moving on… so you can imagine having my boy this much time can somewhat limit my perusing around the local single scene. When I do get out for a night, I have to say I’m pretty disheartened and let down. Orange County is something else… All the “look at me I have fake breasts and the world owes me” women kind of drive me crazy. Don’t get me wrong I’m a big fan of the enhancements but if it changes you into a vapid hollow shell of a human being… again, top left of the screen, you may now move on.
What I’m looking for is someone on the same wavelength I am, I really am interested in an independent self-sufficient woman. Dedicated, focused but fun. Someone who can dress to the nines one night but would not be afraid to get her hands dirty the next.
I’ve been a singer/songwriter pretty much my entire life. While it’s never been a career thing for me, it is a very strong passion of mine. Music, art and expression are big turn-ons for me… real girls. I love being able to share my music with the person I’m with and for her to do the same.
It is very difficult to find that great spark and keeping it lit can more often than not prove to be an even greater challenge. You know the feeling? That feeling you have when you simply can’t wait to get home and see each other. Or when just hearing their voice on the other end of the line can make your day. That’s a good feeling… I’d say It’s been quite sometime since I’ve had those chills. Now, I ask you this... is it unreasonable to hope to be in a permanent honeymoon period? I don’t think so, sure it’s more than possible some things may fade over time but other things should grow and get stronger. See “best friend”…
Brought up on the east coast outside of Boston I like to think I was raised and instilled with traditional values. I always try to be a perfect gentleman and treat my lady like a lady. That being said… please act like a lady, no potty mouths. It isuch a turn-off when we hear girls liberally dropping F-Bombs and what not. Listen, some guys may think its great and will tell you how happy they are you can hang out with the guys and watch a ball game. But at the end of the day, you’re not getting invited home to meet his mother. That’s free advice. Now that’s not to say I walk around like a perfect saint, believe me if I’m with the fellas… lets just say back in Boston the “F” word is a noun, adjective, verb and conjunction. However I do try my best to curtail my locker room vernacular around the ladies. I Promise!
Now I can continue and jibba-jabba on about how I like travel, and go out to nice dinners and blah, blah, blah, blah blah… but c’mon, who doesn’t like to eat and go places? Speaking of eating… I’ve met quite a few women right here in ol’ southern California who couldn’t cook a bowl of Ramen noodles. Seriously, what’s the deal? Again maybe it’s an east coast thing but that’s all we do is cook out there… My moms and grams have taught my brothers and I well. My younger brother is actually an executive chef and runs circles around my older bro and I but I like to think we still do pretty well. So please know how to boil water at the very least…
I hope this doesn’t come off douchey so please don’t take it that way. I’ve never really had a hard time meeting women. It’s fair to say I’ve done all right in this department through the years. However in the last couple years I’ve really tried looking for something that’s more meaningful and people with a little more substance. Now that doesn’t mean I been out bouncing around with a bunch of floozie’s or anything… Well ok, maybe a couple… but my original intentions were always good… I swear! :/
I am a pretty sarcastic person; we have a different kind of humor back east which sometimes can take some people a little while to get used to. But I promise you, if you get to know me I will have you in stitches, I’m kind of that way where I’m always trying to get a good laugh out of someone.
So in a nutshell… Yeah I’m kind of awesome, my friends are awesome, my son is awesome and now I just need Mrs. Awesome. Totally kidding, I’m not that awesome, great maybe… but awesome yeah I dunno that might be a bit of a stretch. I just hope the girl who I think is awesome thinks I’m awesome, my friends are awesome and my son is awesome… Does that make sense? :P
As I mentioned before I’m really so over trying to meet people out, therefore I’m going to continue to make a full court press in the online world in a search for Mrs. Right. So if you’re looking for someone without games who won’t send you a picture of his crotch or fill you up with false hopes in order to bed you down then I’m totally not your guy, cause I actually do all of those things… he he just kidding.