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37 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:48pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Hmmm, where to start? Well, I'm 70% water. And I like food. What's your deal?

I am: often smiling & laughing, striking an ideal balance between serious and fun, positive, saying yes more often. I have a hard time sitting still. I enjoy making things happen. I ride the shit outta some bikes (mountain/road/cross). I often feel like a kid on the playground. I don't ever plan to get old.

[+] Like - music (always playing), good design & user experience, cool tech stuff, geeks, creative types, intelligent + strong women, really bad puns that feel like a sucker punch to the gut, whiskey, dancing, camping, backpacking, snowboarding, trail running, a balance of healthy and decadent, the sun and wind on my face, my dogs (they are fucking nutty), having the one perfect tool for the job. In addition to all this, I like pickles.

[-] Unlike - reality TV, Ed Hardy (who still buys this garbage?), poison oak (my #1 nemesis)
What I’m doing with my life
Making it better.

Planning adventures.

Jobby job: Yes, I have one. It's pretty spectacular. It involves making lists, Post-It™ notes, and herding designers. Good stuff.
I’m really good at
planning and/or instigating
staying up past my bedtime
seeing both sides
people wrangling
making lists
making coffee
making out
making dinner
making a party
going fast
The first things people usually notice about me
(a haiku)

hair: salt and pepper
in facial region: big smile
he's laughing again
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Food - I eat everything, prefer fresh/local/organic (typical, yawn). I think the word "foodie" is incredibly pretentious. Oh, you like food? Wow! Tell me more! Food is one of the best things in life, if you don't enjoy it perhaps, I dunno, you're dead inside?

Extra spicy. If the menu offers "Thai spicy", that's what I'm ordering.

I fucking love tacos. Better than burritos? Discuss.

Music - Always playing. Mostly electronic, indie, and other tasty bits. Recent favorites: Apparat, Bon Iver, Burial, Deerhunter, East India Youth, Fleet Foxes, Foals, Four Tet, Fugazi, Godspeed You! Black Emperor, Grouper, Holy Ghost, Holy Other, Indians, James Blake, Johnny Cash, The Knife, Lumineers, Max Richter, Metronomy, Minor Threat, Modeselektor, Mount Kimbie, Ólafur Arnalds, Poliça, Purity Ring, Radiohead, Red Fang, Savages, Skaters, The Sword, The War on Drugs, xxyyxx, Youth Lagoon

I used to DJ (drum and bass / techno / hip-hop / IDM / etc) which conditioned me to never be satisfied with my current music collection, so I'm always looking for something new. Why yes, I'd love to hear your recommendations or go out to a show!

Books - Philip K. Dick, Neal Stephenson, Kurt Vonnegut, Ready Player One, Dave Eggers, Cormack McCarthy, William Gibson, … I love that the library has Kindle books now, it's gotten me to read way more.

Podcasts - Radiolab, Freakonomics, This American Life (yeah I know, I'm a special snowflake)

Movies / TV - I don't watch too much (internet attention span), but a few current favorites: Daily Show, Workaholics, Kroll Show, Game of Thrones

Enduring favorite movies: Memento / anything Christopher Nolan, Fight Club, Blade Runner, THX1138, American Psycho (hilarious), True Romance, Oldboy, Errol Morris, Coen Brothers, PT Anderson, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, Upstream Color, Solaris (the remake, not the 1972 Soviet one ... I'll happily debate this)

Childhood favorites that I quote without thinking: Spaceballs, Ghostbusters
The six things I could never do without
pour-over coffee
music playing all the time
outside time
mountain bike
cyclocross bike
road bike
multiple screens
wool socks
diverse food
many friends
On a typical Friday night I am
Somewhere on the continuum of:

full of whiskey …………..?……………asleep
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If you have good taste, I'm scraping your profile for music & book recommendations.


I'm über-suceptible to songbombing. It's my kryptonite. The mere *suggestion* of, say, a Huey Lewis lyric will lodge that garbage in my brain for hours. Hmmm .... I probably shouldn't be telling you this.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–40
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are hilarious, never bored, unique, edgy, creative, passionate about something, have your shit together, and like staying fit. Let's promise to never get fat together. You want adventure and explosions in the sky and new things around every corner. Let's make awesome happen.

[Also I'm in need of more friends who are into backpacking. So holler if you're into that.]