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29 M Bedford, OH

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:23am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Writing an awesome self-summary is hard, it turns out. According to research by Wired magazine, I should mention the following in my profile: surfing, surf, yoga, skiing, and ocean. In addition, I’m not supposed to mention God (oops) and I should talk about my love of Radiohead. Also cats as an indefinite article is cool, but not “my cats.” And I can really boost my response rate by finding a clever way to insert “whom” into my profile. So there you have it. For whom all this pleases, there is your first and last mention of all the above. ;)

Now that we’ve got all the technical stuff out of the way, you may have figured out a key part of my personality. If I don’t know what I’m doing, I hit the books! Research is the spice of life. Second only to paprika. I love reading, and watching Joss Whedon shows, and watching Disney flicks with my daughter. My job has me sitting around for large chunks of the day, so I work out pretty intensively a couple of days a week. I try my best to live a healthy lifestyle and have a healthy work/family/fun time balance.

I’m hoping to find someone who wants to share adventures with me. Someone who I can hang out at the bookstore with and drink coffee or go on a random nature hike or hang out with friends with on a Saturday night. I’m looking to spend time with someone who hopefully turns into long-term, but I’m also not in a rush either. So if you wanna hang out, and see if we click, drop me a line. 
What I’m doing with my life
I work full-time as a mental-health therapist. I work with children in a K-8 school. It's a lot of fun!

I have a 5th degree black belt in Karate. I'm not as active these days, but I judge at tournaments and help teach classes when I can. Through my martial arts program, I'm assisting with a nonprofit designed to help injured veterans.
I’m really good at
Listening. Learning. Loving.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have a very calming demeanor. I'm easy to talk to and make a point of listening.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I have a very wide range of tastes, but here's a few:

Favorite book: Illusions by Richard Bach, Transmetropolitan by Warren Ellis

Favorite movie: The Princess Bride, Fight Club, Remo Williams

Favorite show: Buffy, Angel, Supernatural, Arrow, Hannibal, Highlander, Breaking Bad, Walking Dead

Favorite music: I grew up on Metal, but I'll listen to anything. I've seen a range of bands in concert, from Iron Maiden to the Spice Girls.

Favorite food: I love sushi. Mostly my diet consists of a lot of protien, fruits, veggies.
The six things I could never do without
1. My family
2. Books
3. Coffee
4. Exercise
5. Single-malt Scotch
6. My iPhone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life, the universe, and everything.

I spend a lot of time thinking about the future and where life will take me.
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm spending some quality time with family, out at the bar with friends, or occasionally some Cards Against Humanity.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm very protective of my daughter. It would take awhile before I would be ready to introduce her to someone.

I try and live my life as a minimalist. I'm a firm believer that possessions tend to own you.

I have 4 tattoos, which for some reason tends to surprise people. Due to my professional career, they aren't in obviously visible places. I'm considering getting a largish tattoo on my back, still working out the details.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You'd like to get to know one another!

What I'm looking for:
Those for whom sarcasm, honesty, romance, are important qualities. ;)