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J_1_K

36 Oakland, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:45pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.86m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on space camp
Job
Transportation
Income
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Okay), Spanish (Poorly), Other (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Husband of 11 years, proud father, dog owner, jack of all trades, homeowner, non-monogamous, semi spiritual, pragmatic, ISTJ, left handed, intelligent yet non-collegiate, and good natured anti-bro. *fully legitimate open honest marriage.
Currently involved with a wonderful girlfriend so I don't have all that much time for dating nowadays. But then again, anything can happen.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
40 hours a week repairing transit rail vehicles. Fixing stuff and figuring out how stuff works, showing my daughter how stuff works, raising my 4 year old to be an intelligent strong woman and not a princess. Going to shows, drinking beer, house maintenance, yard work, and other adult like shit.
Recent projects include replacing the drain pump on our washing machine, removing the recirculating pump from the dishwasher because some garbanzo beans got stuck in the impeller. Replacing the spindle, steering rack, and suspension on my vw passat wagon (hit and run last Christmas).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
rocking a farmers tan, laughing at myself, welding, booking air travel, compersion, troubleshooting in the physical realm, parallel parking any stick shift vehicle on a hill while it's raining, reading the female body's reaction to touch, trying to be an incognito tourist, simplicity, keeping houseplants alive, whistling like a mexican, making peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, enjoying the silence, rolling with the punches, rolling joints, bear hugs, kissing you on the head, being politically incorrect, changing timing belts, grilling chicken, cunnilingus, making tortilla soup, rambling on
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Green eyes and gentle disposition towards life.
Bay area: natural hair color and complete lack of tattoos or piercings.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
technical manuals, electrical schematics, maintenance bulletins, huff post, the four agreements, alan watts, ethical slut, east of eden, vonnegut, murakami, bourdain, sedaris, christopher hitchins, bad religion, thievery corporation, janes addiction, nin, pearl jam, beck, beasties, bonobo, chemical brothers, frank zappa, southernplayalisticadillacmuzik, flaming lips, op ivy, jimi, los fabulosos cadillacs, tame impala, 2pac, louie, lebowski, young frankenstein, charlize theron, archer, always sunny, wilfred, trailer park boys, bar rescue, kitchen nightmares, papalote, bens chili bowl, tritip with chimichurri, bacon wrapped asparagus, kebabs
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Craft brew
Hand tools
Wet wipes
Commercial grade marijuana
Snuggling with my wife and daughter
Binders full of women (name that douchebag)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
living in the meow, belief systems, collective human enlightenment, the negative effect burning man has on the environment, scheduling issues, orgasm control, the plethora of creative gender labels found on okc profiles, and which government agency to apply for a job next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
This or that
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Shit, if it's gonna be that kinda party I'm gonna stick my dick in the mashed potatoes.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you aren't looking for "the one", relate to open marriage, ethical non-monogamy, are sex positive, easy going, down to earth, and are down to grab an adult refreshment some time. Bonus points if you aren't a huge fan of makeup and artificial scents.