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J_is_4_JAMES

33 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:46pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
University
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Just moved to NY (5/3/14), I guess these are the basics about me...

I'm a nice guy, with a sense of humor, a penchant for plaid, a sucker for a cocktail or beer, and a flexible dancer (have you seen the matrix?). I like to travel, watch movies, draw, take road trips and hang with friends.

Just moved from Toronto (#keepyourcoldasswinter). Originally from Santa Barbara, Ca which means I'm forever a Westcoast guy at heart.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work a lot, I'm a Regional Visual Merchandiser for a luxury brand. I am working hard to bring balance to my personal life. I travel a lot and get to be creative and analytical at the same time. There's never a dull moment and I don't spend much time at home. Would love to establish a close group of gay friends and someone to come home to.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
All things creative. Also activities like wine drinking & bourbon drinking I happen to be pretty good at too.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair, my tattoos? You tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books- I try to only purchase hardcover (because one day I want a library of the books I've read...this makes moving a BITCH (heavy ass boxes). I tend to like fiction or rock n roll autobiographies: The Historian, Bram Stoker's Dracula, Guillermo del Toro & Chuck Hogan's The Strain Trilogy, The Demonologist, Potter series, LOTR series, all the Anne Rice Vampire and Witches series, Call of the Wild, To Kill A Mockingbird, Motley Crue The Dirt, Anthony Keidis Scar Tissue, Anthony Bourdain books...etc. Also, my guilty pleasure used to be comic books (Marvel) because for quite a while I wanted to go into comic illustration and color.

Music, I like Indie (folk&rock), hiphop, 80's, 60's, r&b, piano and guitar. I like The Killers, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, MGMT, The Raveonettes, The Rosebuds, Ryan Gosling's Dead Man's Bones, Emily Jane White, Sleep Station, Flo + the Machine, The Shins, The Black Keys, Beach House, Alabama Shakes, Sleigh Bells, DAVID BOWIE (LOOOVE), Coldplay, Fleetwood Mac, Amy Winehouse, Erykah Badu, Mariah Carey, Biggie, Salt N Pepa, Pharrell Williams, Nicki Minaj (since 2007, thank you very much), Kelis.

I either like my music dark and brooding, or something I can dance to.

Movies: I like a lot of genres. I especially like Horror, and I have a weird fondness for movies that take place in space or deep under water (Alien, The Abyss, Prometheus, Star Trek, 2001: A Space Odyssey, Event Horizon, Sphere, etc...

My favorite feel good movies are Ferris Bueller's Day Off, Empire Records, and 200 Cigarettes.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The clichés:

Family
Dogs
A pen and paper
Travel
Music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Just recently started feeling that it would be nice to meet someone to share time with, travel with, and have a relationship with. I've been independent and focused on work for so long that as I am creeping toward my mid 30's, I'm starting to feel that itch.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Wine at home or a stiff cocktail out with some friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Zimbio (via Facebook) says that I'm Regina George from Mean Girls, Brian Fontana from Anchor Man, Zach Morris from Saved by the Bell, the witch chick that was obsessed with Stevie Nicks from American Horror Story Coven, Luna Lovegood from Harry Potter, Gandalf from Lord of the Rings, Scar from Lion King (which Disney villan are you), Ziggy Stardust (which David Bowie are you), Jean Grey (which X-Men character) and the list goes on. Don't judge...haha
You should message me if
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You want to.

Mainly, I am attracted to a guy that is honest, nice, driven, handsome (just being honest), cares about his friends and family and for the most part, has his life together. A big heart, compassion and a sense of humor go a long way. Tattoos and plaid are always a plus ;)