A polyamorous gamer/geek/dancer/student. I love new tasks,
challenges, and open-minded conversations. Fun and variety are
necessary things in my life.
I have multiple partners. For those in shock, look up that second
word of this section. Everyone's aware and happy.
What I’m doing with my life
Working and learning new skills on the job every day. Spending time
with friends and who I consider family. Gaming to get some time
away from the hustle. Spending time with my GF,
I’m really good at
Computers, and making them do the work for us.
Techy/geeky topics and trivia.
Being a student.
The first things people usually notice about me
I've never really asked, but others seem to trust me easily.
Perhaps I set them at ease, or am projecting calm. Most of the
traits others seem to end up liking from first impressions are all
social in nature. If I asked more, I'd probably have a better list
to put here.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: much of Larry Niven's works, some Neal Stephenson, enjoyed
the Kushiel series.
Movies/TV: V for Vendetta, Firefly/Serenity, Star Trek, Star Wars
(yes it is possible to like both!), Bones, House, Mental, Black
Swan, Dexter, Perception, Dr. Who, and more.
Music: Lots of things excluding twangy country and angry rap, but
including things like Great Big Sea, Bon Jovi, Flogging Molly. I've
got a giant collection that I'll put on shuffle-all
Video Games (I include these because like other forms of
entertainment/art, preference in games can allude to certain traits
in people): Have played a lot, but some favorites include: select
final fantasies (and similar play styles like Chrono Trigger); ace
combat series; assassin's creed series; guild wars (but not WoW!);
and almost anything that involves two or more people that isn't a
Board/card Games: Robo Rally; Illuminati; infernal contraption; and
Food: Depends on mood, but give me a nicely done steak, or a great
Italian place, and I'm good.
The six things I could never do without
I love banter. I don't mean competitive debates, I mean banter.
Must include wit.
Friends who can mentally engage in a conversation.
Any physical activity more demanding than walking.
A connection to the net.
Someone to go out and have fun with.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where things are going, where they've been, and reading between the
lines. That *is* generic, but my mode of thought describes me
better than what I'm thinking about.
I enjoy watching sea-changes in perceptions for their implications
in the future.
I like thinking on relationships as it gives me insight into both
sides and the relationship itself.
Over it all, my fascination with the past's contribution to the
present and the near future's potential on the farther future
describes how I think, but it isn't what I always talk about.
On a typical Friday night I am
Typical is hard to define these days. I do need to get more dancing
in my life, but it isn't regular yet.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Is at the top of this profile. Not everyone agrees with the choice
of lifestyle. I don't advertise myself in a lot of places, and that
is something that's caused waves before, so it gets advertised a
You should message me if
You are: not possessive; open-minded; intrigued; a person with more
than two layers; a gamer; able to read between the lines; like
geeky; want sensuality; someone who shares any of my interests.