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30 Santa Cruz, CA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21–33
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 5
Asian, White
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
When drinking
Other, and very serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
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Bipolar biracial genderfluid Gemini polyamorous agnostic nondualist. Don't expect me to be the same person tomorrow that I was today and I'll do the same for you. I have no idea what I'm doing or why I'm doing it. Just trying to live as much life as possible while this ego still persists.

I write and I play music as much as possible. I love to travel and I need adventure on a regular basis. I love the laws of logic, phenomenology, and the phases of the moon. I ramble at length about bullshit I think matters and I think my degree in philosophy validates that behavior.

Hardcore sapiosexual. Intelligence is very sexy to me. Doesn't just have to be analytic intelligence-- creativity, competence, somatic, and emotional intelligence are all sexy as hell.

I believe if you want to be beautiful, you need to *be* beautiful. It's an active being, not something that just happens to you. I also don't think beauty means looking like anything you see in magazines or on TV...

I'm not "the one". I'm just looking for someone who's on the same journey as me, for however long.

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What I’m doing with my life
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I go to Burning Man. Working in communications and development at UCSC. Involved with some community organizations. Getting into producing shows. Play music. Write. Give workshops on things like nondualism or intention and modality. Trying to make something of myself. Trying to do the best I can.
I’m really good at
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Writing. And words in general.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile. Not in a vanity kinda way-- in an, "Oh my god he's about to devour us all!" kinda way.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Cat's Cradle, Slaughterhouse 5, Breakfast of Champions, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, Brave New World, 1984, Nausea, The Picture of Dorian Gray, The Trial, The Little Prince, A Scanner Darkly

Movies: Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, A Clockwork Orange, Harold and Maude, It's Such a Beautiful Day

TV: The Daily Show, Community, Doctor Who, Mad Men

Music: David Bowie, Cat Stevens, Kaki King, Modest Mouse, Defiance Ohio

Food: anything veggie.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, Freedom, Adventure, Creation, Beauty, Music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Metaphysics, the limitations of human understanding, the illusion of separation, what lies beyond our perceptions, how we create our own realities, logic, paradigms, metaphor, what limits us, anarchy, consciousness, music, intention, love
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If there is no adventure to be found, I make my own.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Are you kidding me?
You should message me if
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You live in the hard to define and you're not afraid to try something new.