Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
We just need to cross paths ....
Hi there, thank you for taking the time to check out my
It has come to my attention that I need to update this to make
myself a little more clear.... I know everyone says "I'm
different," but let me explain that I am not the typical guy who
likes sports, bars, cars, and guns. If you want to watch football
on Sundays I'm cool with that, but it just isn't my thing (I know I
just eliminated quite a few of you).
Music and writing are my two main passions. I've been a drummer for
over half of my life and I've published three collections of short
fiction. I believe deeply in following your dreams and nothing else
can compare to what you truly love to do. I'm always striving to
better myself and become more sensitive and aware to this ever
changing world that we live in.
A more recent goal of mine is to get in better shape and stay
healthy. I'm by no means perfect, but it would be great to find
someone who likes to go hiking, biking, et cetera .... I'm
typically attracted to full figured curvy women.
I'd like to find someone who is intelligent, sweet, open minded,
affectionate, and adventurous. Being laid back is also very
important to me as well. If you are an incessant talker, or you
can't sit still for long then it probably won't work out. One of my
favorite things to do is curling up on the couch with that special
person to watch a movie.
Above all, I am searching for someone that I can really talk to and
laugh with. With that being said, I know you cannot force a
connection with someone. Either you feel something or you don't.
Although I am ultimately looking for something serious, I know that
takes time. No pressure! If you are on the same page as me I hope
to hear from you :)
P.S. You probably won't get a response if you send something like
this: "hi im jan how youdoing i relly like youre pic s hit me up"
What I’m doing with my life
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Pursuing a career as a writer. My three books are collections of
short stories in the vein of Poe, King, and Rod Serling. I spend a
lot of time writing and traveling around the region to festivals to
sell and promote my work.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Authors: Poe, King, Kesey, Steinbeck, Hunter S. Thompson et
cetera.... I also love biographies and historical nonfiction. Music
- just about everything but I don't care much for country or new
hip-hop. Food - Mexican, lasagna and garlic bread and King Crab
Legs. Movies - The Shawshank Redemption, Amadeus, the Big Lebowski,
Almost Famous, A Few Good Men, Donnie Darko, all 80's John Hughes
movies, The Jerk, Raising Arizona, One Flew Over the Cuckcoo's
Nest, Slingblade, It's a Wonderful Life, and so many more. As for
tv, I got hooked on Breaking Bad, Madmen, and more recently The
Walking Dead. I also like true crime shows. Big Bang Theory and 2
and a Half Men (with Charlie) is good. I like the history channel
too (fine, call me a dork)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The stories or songs spinning around inside my head. Also the
future, and how I can improve and become a better person.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with friends or looking for something new to do. I
admit that on some Fri. nights I just like to sit and chill at
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a poor speller. I read and write all the time, but there is
something weird about my brain when it comes to that.
You should message me if
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You are sweet, intelligent, laid back, and you keep your word. No
games! If you are not consistent then I won't take you seriously.
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