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42 Indianapolis, IN Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

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6′ 2″ (1.88m)
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Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
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We just need to cross paths ....

Hi there, thank you for taking the time to check out my profile:)

It has come to my attention that I need to update this to make myself a little more clear.... I know everyone says "I"m different," but let me explain that I am not the typical guy who likes sports, bars, cars, and guns. If you want to watch football on Sundays I'm cool with that, but it just isn't my thing (I know I just eliminated quite a few of you).

Music and writing are my two main passions. I've been a drummer for over half of my life and I've published two collections of short fiction. Book #3 will be released this year. I believe deeply in following your dreams and nothing else can compare to what you truly love to do. I'm always striving to better myself and become more sensitive and aware to this ever changing world that we live in.

A more recent goal of mine is to get in better shape and stay healthy. I'm by no means perfect, but it would be great to find someone who likes to go hiking, biking, et cetera .... I'm typically attracted to full figured curvy women.

I'd like to find someone who is intelligent, sweet, open minded, affectionate, and adventurous. Being laid back is also very important to me as well. If you are an incessant talker, or you can't sit still for long then it probably won't work out. One of my favorite things to do is curling up on the couch with that special person to watch a movie.

Above all, I am searching for someone that I can really talk to and laugh with. With that being said, I know you cannot force a connection with someone. Either you feel something or you don't. Although I am ultimately looking for something serious, I know that takes time. No pressure! If you are on the same page as me I hope to hear from you :)

P.S. You probably won't get a response if you send something like this: "hi im jan how youdoing i relly like youre pic s hit me up"
What I’m doing with my life
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Pursuing a career as a writer. My two books are collections of short stories in the vein of Poe, King, and Rod Serling. I spend a lot of time writing and traveling around the region to festivals to sell and promote my work.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My sexy calf muscles
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Authors: Poe, King, Kesey, Steinbeck, Hunter S. Thompson et cetera.... Music - just about everything but I don't care much for country or new hip-hop. Food - Mexican, lasagna and garlic bread and King Crab Legs. Movies - The Shawshank Redemption, Amadeus, the Big Lebowski, Almost Famous, A Few Good Men, Donnie Darko, all 80's John Hughes movies, The Jerk, Raising Arizona, One Flew Over the Cuckcoo's Nest, Slingblade, It's a Wonderful Life, and so many more. As for tv, I got hooked on Breaking Bad, Madmen, and more recently The Walking Dead. I also like true crime shows. Big Bang Theory and 2 and a Half Men (with Charlie) is good. I like the history channel too (fine, call me a dork)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The stories or songs spinning around inside my head. Also the future, and how I can improve and become a better person.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with friends or looking for something new to do. I admit that on some Fri. nights I just like to sit and chill at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a poor speller. I read and write all the time, but there is something weird about my brain when it comes to that.
You should message me if
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You are sweet, intelligent, laid back, and you keep your word. No games! If you are not consistent then I won't take you seriously.