Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
So right off the bat. I'm in a super happy committed but open and
realistic relationship. What this means is neither of us is going
to close ourselves off to the opportunity to meet other amazing
That being said.
Hey there I'm Jack,
I'm the President of a traditional hot rod club. Those boys are
more like my family than my family. I like great music, cold beer
and good people.
I live a very 1950's lifestyle and that really reflects most of
what I'm looking for in a gal. I really want that whole house with
a white picket fence ideal. That being said I'm not just some
misogynist that believes a woman belongs in the kitchen... although
aprons are really sexy.
I like rockabilly music and swing dancing a lot (I need a new dance
partner) and I think the lead/follow of that really is a great
indication of how gender roles should work out. Two people learning
each others signals and resulting in something beautiful and
Other than that I'm pretty much an open book. If there is anything
you'd like to know just let me know.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Finally taking the time to enjoy life and do things that genuinely
make me happy.
I've spent the better part of forever in school or in soul crushing
jobs. (I'm a psychologist by education. Something that is harder to
do than most people think.)
I work on and restore old american cars. I collect mid century
furniture and appliances and I'm turning my house into something I
can really be proud of.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Meeting people and making new friends and making people feel
important and wonderful.
I also really like taking care of people. I tend to end up being
"Daddy" in most situations.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm really tall and evidently very intimidating looking. I'm also
crass, smoke big cigars and laugh really loud.
I can usually be overheard telling a joke that makes me look like a
weird-o from across the bar.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books, oh god I love books. Umm I'm reading the Tom Waits biography
right now. And the Dresden files. I really like The Dark Tower
series by King, and a lot of the stuff that came out of the beat
generation. Ginsberg, Kerouac and so on. I'm a fan of Hunter
Thompson and just recently getting into Vonnegut.
My REAL passion though are pulp noir things like The Maltese Falcon
and The Thin Man.
I love all kinds of movies. Mostly grindhouse cheesy action and
comedy. I'm not a fan of horror movies that are "actually scary"
but other than that I'm up for anything.
Music is really a major part of my life. I love blues, jazz, punk
rock, rockabilly, psychobilly, 90's alternative, roots rock and old
style country western. I have an ever growing collection of old
records and am a HUGE fan of Tom Waits. I've got almost everything
he's ever recorded, he's kinda the soundtrack to my life.
I love American food. Steaks and burgers all day every day. Close
second is tied between Chinese, Greek and Italian.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My car. My family. Music. My pets. A tooth brush and a hot shower.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I'm doing next on my car, going to shows and putting on
I also spend a lot of time thinking about how and why people think
the way they do. I have degrees in Psychology and Philosophy
because I'm amazed by the how and why of thought.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home hanging out, or out with my brothers causing trouble.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm an amnesiac, there is a huge part of my developmental years
that are just a big blank spot. I didn't start creating new
memories till I was 9.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You can laugh at yourself and don't take life too seriously. If you
look good in an apron :) If I seem like someone you'd like to be
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