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28 Los Gatos, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–69
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Nov 13
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly other
Not at all
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm poly. Why poly? Because... I guess I have to call myself that if I want to keep having two girlfriends (They are both crazy.).

I'm on here to meet both friends and other potential partners. Persons with similar music interests and/or kink interests need apply.

I have a passion for music. 70s and 80s are my favorite decades for music, but there's plenty of stuff before and after that I love. My absolute favorite music is early 80s synth (new wave, rock, pop, industrial). See my below for what I've been listening to since 2006. I also produce some music as a hobby and play the guitar.

How about sex? I'm into kink, D/s, and BDSM. I have a ton of gear. I don't like sex stuff with random people, so it's more of a personal thing that I share with actual partners.

I used to write for a sexual freedom and liberal activism website. I'm super LGBT(QQKwhatever) friendly. Apparently I'm a third wave feminist but that doesn't sound gender neutral enough so I'm just this person who thinks gender roles impose bullshit on everyone.

I really love Pokemon and I've been playing Magic the Gathering since 1999.

I don't drink anymore. Drinking caught up with me and now I have to have fun other ways. I used to be really into quality beer and wine before it started fucking up my life.
What I’m doing with my life
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I manage a property in the Santa Cruz Mountains for a friend and generally try to keep the place together.

I have a decent amount of spare time, which I spend making music, practicing guitar, cooking awesome food, and playing some computer games.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, computer stuff, being on time.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have a dry and sarcastic sense of humor. I'm also kind of an asshole, but the loveable kind.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music I listen to:
Music I make:

Movies usually bore me, but we watch a lot of them in my house. I like action films, sci-fi, comedies, dark humor...

Shows: I prefer shows. Trailer Park Boys, South Park, Dr Who, Family Guy, American Dad, Rick and Morty, Lexx

Food: I love cooking. I make awesome chicken-wings, burgers, pizzas, stir-fry, authentic Mexican tacos, and plenty more.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Access to information
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to have a nice day
Perverted stuff, kink
Design and organization
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Cooking, listening to music, or going to a show.
You should message me if
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You're bi, kinky, have similar interests, or want to make a new wave/industrial metal band.