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JackB1980

33 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:07am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Sign
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Banking / Finance
Income
$150,000–$250,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I dread being asked, "where are you from?" Grew up in Arkansas, moved to Maryland, went to college in Vermont, spent time in DC, Iowa and Berlin. Been to 46 states. No clue what that makes me.

Been in the city for almost 10 years now. I get along with anyone from the bartender to the CEO, to the bus driver, to the crazy homeless man...I'm quite partial to Kansans.

Spend my time with my friends and host a weekly networking happy hour. I enjoy going out to the better bars and restaurants, but the days of closing places down and hitting the diner at 7 are behind me. I've become a concierge of sorts amongst my friends, they always ask me what spots to check out.

While I was in a fraternity, and have spent years in a suit, I'm also well-versed in beat poetry, Politics and current events, have a working knowledge of good wines, and play the guitar. I'm the kid in high school who was friends with every group, but not of any one type in particular.

I'm a karaoke master, and I have no shame.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work in finance and I'm wondering why. Been a bit disillusioned with the whole thing. Should have stuck with Law. I work in sales for a bond trading firm. Live on the Upper East Side. Mostly plotting ways I can escape the city and return to 'real' America, for now I just travel to odd places at random times. Think I'm ready to move into the second phase of a career now that I'm more comfortable, so finding things to define me other than work is my priority. Have been thinking about photography/cooking/wine classes
lately.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Conversation. Very outgoing, excellent listener and well-versed in many spheres of random topics. My job at work is really to get total strangers to talk to me about everything they do in a short amount of time. Like the cold-caller guy in the 'Wolf of Wall Street', minus the federal indictments. I usually get a feel for people after a couple of sentences, and gain their trust, confidence and respect quickly. People generally find themselves opening up to me like I'm a long-lost friend within a few minutes.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Honestly it's my voice. I get it all the time. People tell me I should be in radio or broadcasting. I have pretty much zero accent, good diction and a deeper tone. Most of the work I do is over the phone, so I guess you could say I put it to good use.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Tough one. I'm somewhat dry when it comes to books, I like non-fiction a lot. Anything that makes me feel like I am a better educated person when I put it down. Movies I tend towards dramas and 'film', but Office Space, Old School and the Hangover are certainly on rotation. Musically, I've been all over the place from classic rock to jam bands to electronic and new wave. I'm mostly finding myself playing background lounge music or jazz recently. Food is one of the reasons why I wanted to live in NYC, I'm a big fan and really enjoy fine dining and the better restaurants. I've been to many, but still have a lot of whitespace on my checklist. Most of my friends and co-workers are very steakhouse-oriented, but I've learned to expand out to Greek, Indian, Thai, and Seafood spots the city offers. Would mention here that I'm a comedy nerd as well. Marc Maron's podcast, if you like comedians and you aren't familiar, you are welcome.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Guitar
New York Times
Family Photos
Red Wine
iPhone
Dark chocolate
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What my family will look like. What kind of business I would like to own one day. Where in the world I'd like to travel. How early I'll be able to 'retire'. Hammocks.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Meeting friends for happy hour in some bar in midtown, eating out at a cool restaurant, then going on to a lounge or a low-key spot late-night. Or if it was a long week, I'm a big fan of Chinese food, red wine, Netflix, dark chocolate, the couch and passing out at 9:30. In rock-star fashion.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a complete nerd when it comes to news/politics/business. Total info junkie. I never stop reading. Ever.
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 25–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You should be someone who wants to enjoy the city with a person who appreciates who you are, and what you have to offer this world. I am looking for a confident, strong woman who is on the right path. None of my girlfriends have had much in common physically, but there is usually something 'regal' or graceful about each of them. I'm kind of into nerdy girls, so high GPA is a plus! And no mustache photos. You live in Brooklyn. I get it.