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27 M Memphis, TN

My Details

Last Online
Jul 20, 2008
Black, Pacific Islander
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from high school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
lol even though I am theatrical. I dont start nor do I deal with alot of drama, due to the fact that I kinda let most things role off of my sleeve so to speak. I'm pretty new to being openly gay, and I've only been clubbing twice. I am pretty hard to reach because I'm always out doing stuff and I dont have a cell phone.

Your result for The Quick & Painless ENNEAGRAM Test...

9 - the Peacemaker
you chose BX - your Enneagram type is NINE (aka "The Mediator")

"I am at peace"

Peacemakers are receptive, good-natured, and supportive. They seek union
with others and the world around them.

How to Get Along with Me

  • If you want me to do something, how you ask is important. I especially
    don't like expectations or pressure.

  • I like to listen and to be of service, but don't take advantage of this.

  • Listen until I finish speaking, even though I meander a bit.

  • Give me time to finish things and make decisions. It's OK to nudge
    me gently and nonjudgmentally.

  • Ask me questions to help me get clear.

  • Tell me when you like how I look. I'm not averse to flattery.

  • Hug me, show physical affection. It opens me up to my feelings.

  • I like a good discussion but not a confrontation.

  • Let me know you like what I've done or said.

  • Laugh with me and share in my enjoyment of life.

What I Like About Being a NINE

  • being nonjudgmental and accepting

  • caring for and being concerned about others

  • being able to relax and have a good time

  • knowing that most people enjoy my company; I'm easy to be around

  • my ability to see many different sides of an issue and to be a good
    mediator and facilitator

  • my heightened awareness of sensations, aesthetics, and the here and

  • being able to go with the flow and feel one with the universe

What's Hard About Being a NINE

  • being judged and misunderstood for being placid and/or indecisive

  • being critical of myself for lacking initiative and discipline

  • being too sensitive to criticism; taking every raised eyebrow and twitch of the mouth personally

  • being confused about what I really want

  • caring too much about what others will think of me

  • not being listened to or taken seriously

NINEs as Children Often

  • feel ignored and that their wants, opinions, and feelings are unimportant

  • tune out a lot, especially when others argue

  • are "good" children: deny anger or keep it to themselves

NINEs as Parents

  • are supportive, kind, and warm

  • are sometimes overly permissive or nondirective

Renee Baron & Elizabeth Wagele

The Enneagram Made Easy

Discover the 9 Types of People

SanFrancisco, 1994, 161 pages

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I am theatrical, vintage, and intellectual
I’m really good at
wrestling(did it all through high school), playing video games, tennis(well I wouldn't say good...), other miscellaneous sports(take frisbee golf for example), poetry, editing stuff lol, I'm good at being with someone. like I'm really easy to be around w/o feeling awkward
The first things people usually notice about me
I suppose you'll just have to find out. O maybe that I'm tall.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
really? well I guess I can give you a taste

hannibal, the giver, the shining, Orion among the stars, The hursday next novels(lost in a good bok, the well of lost plots, so on and so forth)

The matrix trilogy, the lord of the rings (including the hobbit), Get real, The nightmare before christmas, American beauty(my fav), American psycho, ect...

black eyed pees, fugees, linkin park, john mayer, rem, counting crows, slipknot, ect...

bacon, cinnamon rolls, bacon, pork chops, peaches, bacon, Ginger(I love eating just ginger before my sushi), sushi, some Vietnamese soups, O and I'm forgeting something.... what is it?... O yeah!!!! BACON
The six things I could never do without
I could do without everything
I spend a lot of time thinking about
politics, the thin line that separates our thoughts from reality, Relationships of people, underground politics, beauty
On a typical Friday night I am
not even sure its Friday. I tend to lose track of time. especially on Friday nights
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
my friend died yesterday, but I don't really want to talk about it.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 20–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
your bored, or if you wanna meet me and you are under 35 and fairly good looking, not to sound shallow, but online you have to say what you want because you can have anything on here.