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26 Crystal Lake, IL Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 14
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Banking / Finance
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, and wants more

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My self-summary
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I'm 24 years old and and well-grounded. I have a five year old daughter who is my world and my reason behind every decision I make. I know who I am and where I'm going in life. I laugh a lot. "Smiling's my favorite"- Elf. I'm constantly quoting movies. I'm a clean-freak and it's starting to rub off on my little girl :/ I believe in being treated like a lady. I'm classy (most of the time lol) and expect to be treated as so. I don't play games. I speak what's on my mind - good, bad, or indifferent. It is in my opinion, my best and worst quality. I think confidence is sexy and I wear it well. I'm sociable and enjoy meeting new people. I like to be active and try new things. I love the smell of rain and coffee. I don't expect to meet a perfect person, but I would like to meet someone who strives to perfect themselves. "Always do the next right thing." I live by that motto. I'm laid-back and usually up to no good. :) I have the best set of girlfriends ever, though I wish I saw them more frequently.

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What I am looking for

A man that will open a door for a woman, not because it's "socially accepted" but because he likes to make me feel special. A man that likes kids and can laugh at himself (and me). The kinda man that doesn't buy me flowers but sends text messages like "Morning Beautiful" or "Thinking about you". A man that likes to spend time with his family (and mine) but finds it equally important to spend time - without me - with his friends. The kind of man that knows when to be supportive and when to tell me I'm being over-dramatic. I want a gentleman but I also want someone who will tell me rauncy jokes, slap my ass, and flaunt me to his friends. A man who laughs - a lot. A man who is adventerous but not impulsive. A man that can be honest about how he feels and what he needs from me to make a relationship work. Someone who wants kids and quite a few. A man who can fingerpaint with the best of 'em. A man who appreciates my nerdyness - nose in a book, glasses, snorts when I think something is really funny - and my constant rambling (which I do a lot). Lol. I want a best friend. A man who texts or calls me wether or not it follows the "dating rules". I'm not looking to get laid - my showerhead suffices - I don't want a man that's here to "hit it and quit it". I want a man who tells me I am tan even when we both know that I am not. I want to be flattered - in moderation. Not to be all Cheap Trick but "I want you to want me", not just sexually, but mentally, and for the person I am. I like to do nice things for people and I would like to find a man that is the same way. And lastly, I want someone who is compassionate towards other people and genuinely cares about other people's well-being.

I would like to note that I don't expect a man to be ALL of these things - it's like my "bucket list" of dating. But for me, if I am serious with someone, I want to make them happy and if I can do little things that they appreciate that I wouldn't normally do, then it seems to me it's a win-win situation. Relationships are not 50-50. I dislike that expression. I'm willing to give 100%. :)
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm the Director of Guest Relations at a banquet hall in Rolling Meadows. I regularly meet, interact, and network with people from all different walks of life - in a 9-5 setting. :)

I regularly volunteer (with my daughter) at different organizations. It's a passion of mine and I would love to get involved with Missions trips one day.

I'm not a huge fitness nut but I take pride in the way I look. I love Zumba and not only do I take classes at the gym, but I also do it on my Wii :) I like to be active and enjoy the burn I feel in my muscles after I've pushed myself too hard the day before.
I’m really good at
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Being a mother, being happy and content with myself. Balancing my social life with the needs of my daughter, seeing the good in most situations. Writing :). Playing spades. Falling up the stairs, tripping on air, and running into walls. Finding creative ways to insult people -- douch"e", gutter slut, ass clowns.... just to name a few. lol Laughing at something that happened hours ago; laughing at my own jokes. Giving the "Stink" eye. Giving good advice. Pointing out blaringly obvious things. Making Mac & Cheese....eating Mac & Cheese. Doing an impression of the "Ken" voice with my daughter while playing Barbies and singing Aqua's "Barbie Girl". Saying random things in random accents. Dancing in the shower.....taking a shower. BDSM. Being submissive.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, my smile, and my goofyness.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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All books, favorite authors are James Patterson, John Grisham, Stephen King to name a few.

I love movies and I pride myself on my growing movie collection. Everything from chick flicks to sci-fi.

Shows would be Total Blackout - hysterical, by the way. Franklin and Bash, the News, Friends, How I Met Your Mother. Really anything that makes me laugh or challenges my thinking.

I love all music....except screaming death metal.

I love all food too....I'm a foodie. I'm happiest right after a big meal.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My daughter.
My self-awareness.
My family.
My shower head :)
My music.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My life. I'm always striving to better myself as an intellectual, a person, and a parent.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually asleep by ten because I work Saturday mornings. Now, ask me about saturday night :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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When I'm driving in the car I sing obnoxiously loud and I love to point to other people in their cars like I'm singing to them! Ha ha.

Also, I'm a terrible dancer. I think I look fantastic on the dance floor, but in all honesty, I probably look like Jim Carrey wearing his pink tu-tu in "Ace Ventura."
You should message me if
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You're intelligent, with more than two words "hey babe" "what's up ma?" "you're sexy" anything like that, don't bother.

If you're on this site for a relationship and not just to get some. If me having a daughter is not a problem. If you're semi-attractive (not to be an ass but hey, physical attraction matters too). If you laugh more than you complain.