I'm married to PixieCandy and polyamorous. That means that we love each other but that we also like to date and maybe love others.
Catch 22, The Dark Tower, Horns, Anything about the History of Southern California, lots of existentialists, Art books, V Wolf to the Light House... anything and everything Neil Gaimam
Harvey, True Romance... To many to list.
This Binary Universe, The Killers, The Talking Heads, Old Crow, Counting Crows... I am kinda all over the place on music.
Also, not to be a creeper but, sex. Sex is a positive thing and I love having it in my life.