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Jackofhearts87

20 / m / straight / seeing someone

Midland Park, New Jersey, United States

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My self-summary Propose an edit

Hey, My name is Abriel.

I accept that I'm human and I will readily admit I have imperfections (as well as strengths)! We all do! thats what makes meeing people fun!

First of all, I like to write, as you will soon notice if you have not already.

I'll admit, sometimes put things off until the last minute, but shift into gear when serious things need to get done.

I have a habit of being bluntly honest with a straight face...which either leads to ridiculous statements, witty conversations, or laughter at my expense (which i don't mind. I'm use to it ha ha! :P)

I'm a believer in smiling and laughter. I try to do both as much as I can every day :) I generally make people laugh by exaggeration, imitation, and ridiculously expressive faces that i hold longer then i should for added effect.

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What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

In general, what words can define me accurately? A brother. A student. A dreamer. A part time philosopher. I'm human and I learning something new every day about others, and about myself. Other then that, I am doing what everyone else is doing...trying to make sense of things (and enjoying the ride)!...Isn't that what everyone else is doing?

My Plans include continuing college education and also the pursuit of a CNA certificate. (CNA = Certified Nurse Assistant) Upon completion of that, I will pursue a full time job and begin getting a degree in physical therapy.

I feel that being a CNA will give me first hand experience in helping others, and give me a first hand glimpse of the medical field. That and medical assistants and specialists are in high demand. It is good to have a skill in which you can find a job with relative ease, even if it is not the job you are truly after. Its a stepping stone, and stepping stones are good to have in case the leap forward does not work out as planned.

I'm really good at Propose an edit

Making people laugh/smile. Going with the flow. Working out. Writing. Not expecting too much out of any situation, but readily accepting the good or bad of it all. Theres always a silver lining if you look hard enough.

I like an active life style. I run, lift weights, read from time to time, write from time to time, and travel when I get the chance. I've enjoyed hiking in the past but wouldn't mind finding someone (friend or otherwise) to go for nature walks or hikes with. Getting out is good for the mind and body.

Witty conversation is a strong point of mine. As long as the other person reciprocates, and gives me something to work with, I can return and increase the flow of conversation with enthusiasm (most of the time :P)

I believe that the energy you put out you will get back and that people mirror the energy that we allow to cycle through us. It's an abstract concept that I have developed from experience. I could get into a detail about positive or negative energy...but I'll spare you general profile browsers out there. For the metaphysical people out there, I think we'd find a lot to talk about.

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

I am told I have an exotic face (This comment was new and I took it as a compliment), soft eyes, and strong arms. I'm also told I have a nice chest and nice abs. (Though these last 2 comments have not been said until recently. Finally! Results!)

Besides that, I have also noticed people can't guess my ethnicity and usually have to ask me what I am because it bugs them so much.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

Books:
Work by Louis L'amour have sparked my interest as of late. His tales of wilderness and survival seem to captivate me and draw me into barren deserts or wild forests. Besides L'amour, I am a Tolkien fan and a C.S Lewis Fan. Meaning I like the chronicles of Narnia and The lord of the rings trilogy. I recently finished a memoir of war called House to House and the insight and sacrifices made by the patriots of our country are inspiring.

Movies:
I like action movies, but I am not above watching movies like the notebook (yes it was touching, I'll admit that much).

Favorite movies of late have to be Across the universe, Iron man, Kung Fu panda, The Incredible Hulk, Street kings, 300, Juno (because it dealt with a lot of issues people don't want to face), and Superbad.

Other movies include, the first Matrix, Shaun of the Dead, The Last Samurai, Hitman (when you have low expectations, anything can surprise you!) We were soldiers, Black Hawk Down, etc...

I like Disturbed, Muse, Avenged Sevenfold, Coheed and Cambria, Nirvana, Aerosmith, Velvet Revolver, Guns N roses, Hooverphonic, Foreigner (for juke box hero), Queen, the Police, Foo Fighters, The Beatles, Panic at the Disco, System of a down, Billy Joel, Billy Idol, Fall Out Boy, RHCP and so many more I can't think of right now.

Musical/ Theatrical Productions:
I like Broadway plays. Les miserables is still my favorite. I have seen cats, Sunday in the park with George, the music man, phantom of the opera, and Spamalot (I love Monty python and British comedy)). I have yet to see wicked though i want to see it very much. I recently saw Camelot at Lincoln center. It was very good. Christopher Lloyd was in it, as well as the actress who played Fran from the Nanny. Both fit their rolls and did well.

Food:
Where to begin!? I love steak, chicken, salmon, red snapper,hammer head shark (yes I've had shark), calamari, pork, and the list goes on and on. I like things in curry, chicken or beef cooked terriyaki style, and sushi. I can go for sashimi as well. Ramen is good (though the cup noodle stuff is poison to your system >,<). I like white or brown rice (brown is healthier for you <(^.^)> I also like spaghetti, linguine, and other Italian dishes. I love pizza as well...Sheesh! I'm sounding like a pig, yet I keep everything balanced and watch what I eat. Gotta stay in shape :P

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

(1) Hope
(2) Optimism
(3) Family
(4) Friends
(5) Sleep
(6) My dogs

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

Girls. Common what straight guy doesn't? I'm not gonna lie to ya :P

Other then that, I think about my goals, my future, all the work I have to remind myself to continue putting in, not only for me, but for the people depending on me. I'm not too worried.

I have goals, a time line I'll hold myself to, and dreams that will one day be my reality. I'll get there, one day, in one way or another. Of that, I'm sure.

I refuse to give up. I have faith that my persistence will be rewarded one day. As long as i continue to try and learn from my falls, there won't be failures...just experience that can only help me grow stronger.

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

Typically, my Friday nights are spent with friends at the movies, at the gym, at home, or at a local restaurant eating Japanese food. If not doing that, I'm at home writing, reading, or listening to music.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

Common!...Ain't no way I'm giving away a good story for free. I'll be willing to trade though :P

You should message me if Propose an edit

If you want to. It is that simple :)

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Jackofhearts87: 182 questions

Ethnicity
Asian, Pacific Islander,
White
Height
5' 8" (1.72m).
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Sagittarius and it's fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
N/A
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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