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52 M Monterey, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 29
Hispanic / Latin, Other
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
what can i say? I'm contemplative, active and adventurous. I seek a partner that appreciates these things in a friend and partner. And I'd like to find someone that understands that life is dynamic, ever changing, and there are good and bad moments always, and that's OK.

I practice hatha yoga, meditate, love kundalini, and appreciate hikes, the beach, a hot tub :), and a massage mmm yess.. from the right person.

I enjoy talking/communicating and just "being" with my partner.. I appreciate the connection that can be found between two.

I watched a biography of neurobiologist Francisco Varela who, commenting on his relationship with wife said, "In our relationship there is room for all of me. For every piece of me. Within her all of me can be contained." Yes, that is the relationship that I want and am willing to work towards. One where there is room for both of us and all of us to thrive and be present in all of the time.
What I’m doing with my life
learning, learning, and continuing to learn. I spend each day practicing to develop and maintain and open heart and mind.

I am developing a small business that I hope will allow me to help others learn and provide me some financial ease.
I’m really good at
Seeing - as in looking deeply at- something from various perspectives. I love photography and manipulating photos to view them from different vantage points.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
"All is Lost" was pretty alluring. I recently saw a fantastic movie on Netflix called "Detached" indie movie called "dickslapped" YES dickslapped! ha ha :) and the "first date."

Music tastes vary totally but do enjoy kurtan/indian music for kundalini music mostly, classical, some jazz, and even alt rock (love Third Eye Blind)..depending.

Mostly vegetarian. Like to cook with my partner, try things out, start with a recipe and create!
The six things I could never do without
my two beautiful children/family
my breath :)
an appreciation for life
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the moment i am in and knowing it will be the past very soon. Appreciating life and it's ups and downs.
On a typical Friday night I am
typical? what's that? j/k

i guess a movie after a run maybe, and simple dinner.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 42–53
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
if you'd like to get to know me:)