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31 / M / Straight / Available

New York, New York

His Details

Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.81m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of space camp
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I am a geeky night owl in an open relationship looking for open minded people. This profile is 100% honest, but not especially serious. If you can't have a little fun on a dating site that asks if you believe in dinosaurs, and if you have dice with more than six sides then you should probably stop reading this...................now.

Still here? Awesome! So I am happily in an open relationship and a strong believer in ethical non-monogamy. So everyone knows about each other none of us believe in keeping secrets. If you're wondering how any of that could ever possibly work, feel free to ask me =).

Still here?! I tend to settle household disputes with nerf guns, and have been known to start snowball fights in the office. I tend to ask "why not?" more than "why?" and I think taking risks is almost always worth the story you earn in the process.
What I’m doing with my life
I spend my workdays on software.
I like being active on the weekends and challenging myself by trying new things. I've been enjoying Parkour, Paintball, and know that it has finally warned up skating in the park.
I’m really good at
Being nonsensical in the face of dire seriousness, and vice versa. I have an encyclopedic knowledge of "useless" information, but I always find ways to make good use of it. I'm pretty good at solving problems or fixing things in unconventional ways.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes, tattoos, and/or piercings depending on how much I'm wearing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
A wild list appears!

Books:
A song of ice and fire
The claiming of sleeping beauty
The dark tower series
Opening up
The Ethical Slut

Anything by the following authors:
William Gibson
Chuck Palahniuk
Terry Pratchett
and Michio Kaku

Movies
Fight Club
A Scanner Darkly
What Dreams May Come
Gladiator
Scott Pilgrim Vs. The World
2001
Blade Runner
V for vendetta

Shows:
Doctor Who
BSG
Sherlock
Sons of Anarchy
Shameless
The IT Crowd
FLCL
Breaking Bad
The Newsroom
Orphan Black
Real Time

Music:
Most of the rock made in the 90's lets just keep it at that for now.

Food:
I wouldn't say there is any particular type of food because I've found that all nationalities have some great stuff. I am especially partial to burgers and BBQ though. I am a connoisseur of food that is horrible for you and have no qualms downing Taco Bell or White Castle, they are worth the extra gym time.
The six things I could never do without
My two amazing partners

A big warm bed

Something with a connection to the internet

Caffeine (specifically Monster Rehab)

A comfy couch

Though provoking conversation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Transhumanism and how much technology has integrated into our day to day lives.

How OK Cupid works... I swear I spend more time poking at this site to figure out how the algorythms and features really work then the software I get paid to work on.

What new hobby or challenge I am going to try next. **Warrior dash at the end of July**
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with my partner(s) or cuddling with them.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
There is the whole poly, open, non-monogamy thing, I would say that's normally pretty private.

I guess that should be enough for now, if you want to know more start asking! =)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–42
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You want to go get lost one night in the city and see what we find together.

You think any and everything about my profile is crazy or intriguing and you are the least bit curious about it.