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33 Surrey, British Columbia, CA Woman


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  • Ages 27-42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 23
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Average build
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
One sentence: I'm the coolest girl with the username Jadedone234 you'll ever read about.

Ok, that sentence was all a bunch of hot air, except for the fact that OkCupid doesn't allow members to use a name that's already taken, so in that aspect it's totally true! I'm the girl that can never sit still, who always tries to make people laugh and goes with the flow. I'm very sarcastic, silly, and have no fear of embarrassing myself when it comes to having fun.

**Oct 2015**
I am exploring non-monogamy. This is a new realm for me, so there are lots of things I am still discovering. It seems necessary to clarify that I am referring to this in emotional/romantic terms rather than sexual. It means right now, I am intertwined emotionally/sexually with two other partners, but I am searching for a "primary" partner. I am hoping to meet someone with whom adventures could be born; a partner in life, a lover, and a friend rolled into one. If you are strictly monogamous, we probably are not on the same ship, at least romantically (maybe a friend ship! See what I did there? 😉) If you are looking for someone to hit all the local sex clubs with, I am not the gal for you.

I am not interested in short term flings, hookups, or friends with benefits. Save your energy for people who are.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm living it. Sometimes I wonder if I'm making the most of my time here, but then I think about all the things I've had a chance to see and do, and then I feel like I'm going in the right direction. Right now, I do my five days a week job where I legally push drugs (no marijuana), and at night I'm free to explore my ever-growing mountain of interests. I'm on a quest to learn more about the complexities of whiskey, while blogging about it the whole way. I dance, I sing, I write...but not all at once.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
remembering details (unless you count names, which for some reason tend to leave me as soon as I hear them). I'm also proficient at kicking ass (I trained in kung fu for a few years), running on an endless supply of internal energy, and making people laugh. Oh, and I'm super awesome at writing the way I talk, which is why this paragraph keeps getting longer because I'm writing the way I would be talking as if I were speaking in person. :)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
is the way I walk. I always walk very purposefully, but it doesn't necessarily mean I always have something to get to. It's pretty handy for manouevering through crowds, though.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Lolita, the Neverending Story, His Dark Materials Trilogy, Rainer Maria Rilke.

Movies: a lot, I'm a bit of a movie buff (IMDB is my go-to for trivia). The movie that always makes me feel a bit nostalgic is the Breakfast Club, but I enjoy anything from documentaries to action to fantasy (although I'm too much of a chicken to enjoy horror).

Food: anything and everything! I do enjoy Japanese and Italian food a lot. And cheese. Mmmm, cheese (camembert and piave mezzano are my go-tos).

Music: varies. I have a particular fondness for Queen and for Jason Mraz, and am loving the music by Adele right now. Otherwise, I like genres from Vanessa Mae to Lady Gaga.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family and friends, music, literature, food, travel, and my camera.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life. Love. Sex. Tattoos. The routine of my day if I had a dog. Things to put down as things I think about. The future. The past. The present. Or, to sum things up nicely, you, baby. *wink*
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
searching for my own slutty pumpkin (if you don't watch "How I Met Your Mother," you should know that isn't meant to be taken literally...or seriously. Kind of). Most likely I am doing whatever I do on any other night. Numerous options include: working out, staying in and watching movies, going out with friends, ice skating, reading the many books I own but have yet to finish, rocking "Bohemian Rhapsody" at karaoke...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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is I'm willing to admit a lot of things if I'm asked. I'm an open book, I just need someone to turn the first page. And also, that episode of "Futurama" where Fry tries to clone his dog always makes me tear up at the end.