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Jae_rm

32 Toronto, Ontario, CA Woman

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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 22–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 30
Orientation
Gay
Height
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Status
Single
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Greetings all!

So, first of all, I'm sometimes a bit inconsistent these days due to health issues. While I'm sorting them out, I'm sometimes a 'let's mail and chat' kinda gal. The good news is I AM sorting them out and mobility is steadily returning. So, hey, if you want to meet that would be lovely and I'm game, just you might need a little patience, depending.

I graduated from a super-busy program, in which I studied theatre and drama. I'm also quite passionate about music and singing. Needless to say, I'm more than a bit on the artsy side. I'm also more than a bit on the geeky/nerdy side, but charmingly so, I fancy. I love reading, words, and the academics in general.

I have a tendency to burst into song, and sneeze around cats. These are unrelated.

As I don't really know what else to say, that's all for now!

I am friendly, intelligent, and quirky
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
At the moment, getting healthy and learning to play the guitar. Alongside that, I'm working on writing up arts grants, adapting and producing (hypothetically) some stuff for youtube, and thinking about the intersectionality of art.

Performance - be it music, theatre, or otherwise - is important. It's a way to tell stories, yes, but also a way to share new ideas and find stories to tell that matter and speak to people. It is a way to connect people to each other, to empathize and become involved in stories that aren't our own. This means that theatre can push boundaries, introduce new ideas, and generally serves a purpose. If that weren't enough, it also is important culturally, in that it can be used as a reflection of a time period, of a people, of a class.

So while I'm telling stories and performing, I believe there is a deeper, more important aspect to what I do than entertainment. (Though I also believe that entertainment factor is an important one, too)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
listening, empathy, singing, acting, spending entirely too much time in my head, making balloon animals ('really good' is perhaps an exaggeration), being extremely silly, and any number of things I cannot think of at the moment.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm going to say my friendliness or approachability.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Oh dear. This is going to be long.

Books: Ancillary Justice (SO GOOD.), the Vorkosigan Saga, The Sparrow, Ender's Game (even though Card is a homophobe), most anything by Neil Gaiman or Terry Pratchett, The Hobbit, anything by Charles de Lint, Halting State, A Song of Ice and Fire (aka the Game of Thrones series), and I really do read things outside of the sci-fi/fantasy genres, I swear! This list will be expanded upon.

Movies: Fury Road (the new Mad Max one), The Court Jester, Clue, The Princess Bride, Kissing Jessica Stein, Wall-E... and surely, this list will expand, too.

TV: Babylon 5, Doctor Who, Avatar:The Last Airbender, Parks and Recreation, 30 Rock, Firefly, Buffy, Battlestar Galactica, Bomb Girls, Orphan Black, Brooklyn Nine-Nine, Agent Carter, The Legend of Korra, The Bletcheley Circle, Orange is the New Black, Pushing Daisies... and again, this will probably be updated. Yes, I do have a bit of a love for all things sci-fi/fantasy. I'm also a big fan of anime. Right now, my obsession is Utena, though I'm really enjoying Kill La Kill, and also loved Fullmetal Alchemist, Gurren Lagan, and Cowboy Bebop.

Music: Anything written by Stephen Sondheim, or Jason Robert Brown. Great Big Sea, Moxy Fruvous, Dar Williams, Kate Rusby, The Wyrd Sisters, The Barenaked Ladies, the Nylons, Eddie From Ohio, The Indigo Girls, Deirdre Flint, Da Vinci's Notebook, a capella in general, The Rankin Family, Tanglefoot, Peter Paul and Mary, and many musicals. (For interest's sake, those include: Into the Woods, Sweeney Todd, The Last Five Years, In the Heights, Guys and Dolls, Jekyll and Hyde, Wicked, Rent, Ragtime... the list could go on.) I also adore choral music, particularly singing it.

Food: Is tasty. Regrettably, dairy has declared a war upon my body, which rather limits what I can eat. That said, I love a lot of types of food!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order
1) Friends
2) Music
3) Books
4) Theatre
5) Cuddling
6) Dogs
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to bring all that I've learned from the theatre world more fully into the musical world. Ways to play with gender and sexuality in performance, life, etc. I also spend a great deal of time thinking about people, life, the universe, and the many things that fall into those categories. That is to say, I spend a lot of time thinking.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
hanging out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I really love puppets. (Also, puppies).
You should message me if
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what you've read above appeals, clearly. If you have an abiding love of the arts and creative endeavors, or all things geeky, or simply want to chat.