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30 Oakland, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 7:45am
Black, Native American, White
6′ 5″ (1.96m)
Body type
A little extra
Strictly anything
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Seeing Someone
Mostly monogamous
Has kids, and might want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Sun: Leo cusp Cancer
Rising: Cancer
Moon: Gemini

Most frequently pulled Tarot card lately:
XX Beyond Illusion

Fav #: 2
Fav flower: Sunflowers & Marijuana
Fav veggie: NM Green Chili
Fav color: day-glow Orange
Fav soda: Root Beer
Fav beer: Newcastle (n.e.time/n.e.where)
Fav liquor: Tequila
Fav sport: Football (not to be confused w/ American football)
Fav Footy team: Newcastle United
Fav car: Mazda RX7, later models
Fav kink: Rope & whips

I've written & rewitten & will most likely rewrite this again & again. I either think of more to put or I feel I put too much. I really don't like to self-describe myself to nameless, faceless people, it feels so ego driven! I feel my actions, experiences, & those who are closest to me best define who I am.... Enjoy my fragmented description!

I'm a gentle heart, an old soul, with a fire I'm learning to harness '-)

I love women, maybe to a fault! Most of my spiritual growth has come from my experiences with our earthly deities. I recognize our celestial bodies as our temple & give tribute, love, humility, & blessings to our feminine temples!

That being said, though I may put y'all on a pedestal at times, it doesn't mean I wont kick it... to test if you can truly handle such heights '-) As the saying goes, "If you meet Buddha on the road, kill him!"
(Buddha, as with Christ, is a state of being. Be wary of those who claim to be a savior '-)

I'm a bit of a goofball! I love to make jokes! Bad jokes are the best! My elders that know me call me wise for my age, my peers call me The Jolly Green Giant.

I like quiet personal time just as much as social time. I love movies & some shows & love watching them with good peeps. I have a wide variety of interests, which I'm jumping between all the time. I'm currently learning how to cook Vegan (for my bread '-), making a dream of mine come true (launching a non-profit here in Oakland!!) and learning how to be an awesome dad & have time for myself (life long lesson). I also want to learn to write screenplays, play more footy, learn how to engineer & draft my favorite tools/toys. I am really good at giving tarot readings, practicing Polarity therapy (need guinea pigs... and time), & challenging life, as to learn what truths are consistent! I always have a book.

I'm also a bit of a gamer! Board games, card games, video games! I love all games, save mind games! Please keep your paranoid mind games to yourself. If u want to know something, ask me. I'm an open book. A poetic, loquacious, spiritual book. (If you have little patience, I can help you learn some or just annoy you. Either way there will be a golden nugget to explore if you want '-)

Very creative & expansive imagination! Can & will get happily lost in invention, new governing systems/approaches, new worlds, stories, myths!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Everyday I'm Hustling....
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Massage/Energy Work
Puzzles & Games
Being where I'm needed
Saying what needs to be said
Being my fiery self '-)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair (unless its short or in a bun)

My insightful nature

My goofy sarcastic nature
(however I know when to end the jokes... For the most part. Im no saint '-)

The intensity yet comforting quality of my presence
(tho most tell me with their body language more often than outright '-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Frank Herbert, Ishmael, Dune series, J.R.R. Tolkien, Chronicles of Narnia, Dr. Randolph Stone, ElfQuest, The Blood Jaguar, Roald Dahl, Israel Regardie, Lao Tsu, Indian Tales, The Jungle Book, Michael Pollan, George Orwell, Daniel Quinn, Bipolar or Waking Up, Celestine Prophesy, Idries Shah, Sherman Alexie, Maus, Zachariah Sitchin, etc

Shows: One Piece, Parks & Rec, The League, Kroll Show, Vikings, True Blood, Vikings, Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones, House of Lies, Dexter, House, Bones, Leverage, Walking Dead, New Girl, Community, Portlandia, Archer, Bleach, Death Note, etc.

Movies: Ninja Scroll, Q. Tarantino, K. Smith, A. Kurusawa, H. Miyazaki, Zooey Deschanel, Usual Suspects, Ronin, What the Bleep, Waking Life, Grandmas Boy, Amelie, District B13, Iron Sky, King of California, Pete's Dragon, Super Troopers, Beerfest, Brasil, Naked Lunch, 13 Monkeys, Mask, etc.

Music: Nat King Cole, Cat Stevens, Busta Rhymes, Coldplay, Adele, The Beatles, Radiohead, SPNTR, Eminem, Tool, The Roots, Edan, TVXQ, Saian Supa Crew, Dixie Chicks, She & Him, Bob Marley, Eek-A-Mouse, Ella Fitzgerald, Manowar, J-live, Interpol, Talking Heads, Mulatu Astatke, The Smiths, Personal & The Pizzas, Deadmau5, Eliza Doolittle, David Bowie, Daft Punk, etc.

Food: I love food! Growing btwn Berkeley & Santa Fe has instilled a love for traditional NM cuisine & Asain foods. But I have a sweet spot for classic diner eats.

P.S. Lists are in no order '-)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Fam & extended Fam
Nat King Cole
History & Mythtory
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Human Motivation
Quantum Reality
Stories & Myths of our past & present
Possible future outcomes
My dream life
Bedroom adventures
Fantastical adventures/goals
Hollow Earth theory
The Nabiru/Anunaki account
Screenplay ideas
Standup comedy routines
Being a father
& so much more
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging with friends/fam or myself, watching movies/shows, telling stories, exploring ideas, writing, cooking, eating, checking out a social scene, game night! '-) Whateva's clever
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I was born defective, came close to death quite early on my journey, but decided I'd rather have death as friend than a destination. 😈
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You feel that an online profile is nothing compared to a talk over a drink

You know a fun outing

You wanna let go, relax, & snuggle into a movie or show together
(or just into eachother '-)

You're thinking about it

You're also living a humble lifestyle aka Ballin on a Budget!

P.S. Please have more to say than a one liner or a compliment. I know I'm a Leo, but I'm not that vain... I prefer honest humility to sparatic wit '-)