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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21-35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 2:43pm
Black, Native American, White
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
6' 5" (1.96m)
Body Type
A little extra
Has kid(s) and might want more
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Sun cusp Cancer
Rising: Cancer
Moon: Gemini

I love life!

I love myself!

I love my earthly deities!

I love healing aka returning to wholeness!

I'm in a loving partnership with Amaterasuinabox & love being a father to 2 awesome rugrats! 👣

At this moment, I'm here to find hiking/biking partners. I've grown up around Berkeley & Oakland and know some good paths. Inspiration Point, Indian Rock, Albany Bulb and Lake Merritt to start. Do you know of some?

I'm a healer by nature.
I serve by trade & choice and love it!

I aspire to have all my interactions be in the highest light especially when dealing with opposing energies. I find it invigorating & inspiring to gain clear understanding of another's reality/perspective.
Let's be honest, though we share the same earthly plain, we're each in our own personal world's 😘

I love sexual energy & enjoy playing with the many spectrums it envelopes.
I desire honest, heartfelt connections before sexual indulgences. With that said, I'm a big flirt when I'm comfortable.

Im open for any mingling of energies: walks, talks over drinks, bike rides, hikes, movies, meals, cuddle puddles, dancing, tarot, massage, whatever.

Let's be genuine with each other & have some fun... and hopefully some healing 💃
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Everyday I'm Hustling....
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Massage/Energy Work
Puzzles & Games
Being where I'm needed
Saying what needs to be said
Being my fiery self '-)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair (unless its short or in a bun)

My insightful nature

My goofy sarcastic nature
(however I know when to end the jokes... For the most part. Im no saint '-)

The intensity yet comforting quality of my presence
(tho most tell me with their body language more often than outright '-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Frank Herbert, Ishmael, Dune series, J.R.R. Tolkien, Chronicles of Narnia, Dr. Randolph Stone, ElfQuest, The Blood Jaguar, Roald Dahl, Israel Regardie, Lao Tsu, Indian Tales, The Jungle Book, Michael Pollan, George Orwell, Daniel Quinn, Bipolar or Waking Up, Celestine Prophesy, Idries Shah, Sherman Alexie, Maus, Zachariah Sitchin, etc

Shows: One Piece, Parks & Rec, The League, Kroll Show, Vikings, True Blood, Vikings, Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones, House of Lies, Dexter, House, Bones, Leverage, Walking Dead, New Girl, Community, Portlandia, Archer, Bleach, Death Note, etc.

Movies: Ninja Scroll, Q. Tarantino, K. Smith, A. Kurusawa, H. Miyazaki, Zooey Deschanel, Usual Suspects, Ronin, What the Bleep, Waking Life, Grandmas Boy, Amelie, District B13, Iron Sky, King of California, Pete's Dragon, Super Troopers, Beerfest, Brasil, Naked Lunch, 13 Monkeys, Mask, etc.

Music: Nat King Cole, Cat Stevens, Busta Rhymes, Coldplay, Adele, The Beatles, Radiohead, SPNTR, Eminem, Tool, The Roots, Edan, TVXQ, Saian Supa Crew, Dixie Chicks, She & Him, Bob Marley, Eek-A-Mouse, Ella Fitzgerald, Manowar, J-live, Interpol, Talking Heads, Mulatu Astatke, The Smiths, Personal & The Pizzas, Deadmau5, Eliza Doolittle, David Bowie, Daft Punk, etc.

Food: I love food! Growing btwn Berkeley & Santa Fe has instilled a love for traditional NM cuisine & Asain foods. But I have a sweet spot for classic diner eats.

P.S. Lists are in no order '-)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Fam & extended Fam
Nat King Cole
Intuition & Communication
History & Mythtory
Awkwardness & Intimacy
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Human Motivation
Quantum Reality
Stories & Myths of our past & present
Possible future outcomes
My dream life
Bedroom adventures
Fantastical adventures/goals
Hollow Earth theory
The Nabiru/Anunaki account
Screenplay ideas
Standup comedy routines
Being a father
& so much more
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Chillin with the munchkins, hanging with friends/fam or myself, watching movies/shows, telling stories, exploring ideas, writing, cooking, eating, checking out a social scene, game night! '-) Whateva's clever
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I was born defective, came close to death quite early on my journey, but decided I'd rather have death as a friend than a destination. 😈
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You feel that an online profile is nothing compared to a talk over a drink

You know a fun outing

You wanna let go, relax, & snuggle into a movie or show together
(or just into eachother '-)

You're thinking about it

You're also living a humble lifestyle aka Ballin on a Budget!

P.S. Please have more to say than a one liner or a compliment. I know I'm a Leo, but I'm not that vain... I prefer honest humility to sparatic wit '-)