Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I AM TRANS
I AM BISEXUAL
I AM POLY
I AM KINKY
Good, glad we got that out of the way and I'm sure that at least
one of those things will put many of you off which is a great shame
because I'm a nice person with some personality and also a pervert
and who doesn't like those, eh? Still, if you can't see past them
things, it's probably for the best that we part ways.
Hello tiny dating pool! It's hard to know what to write in these
things. Do you go for edgy, cool, whatevs attitude or do you make a
super serious effort to write about yourself in earnest? I think
the trick is probably somewhere in the middle. I'm an in the middle
kind of guy I think. I can empathise with both sides and then
hopefully find the middle ground. I should probably get a job in
mediation or something.
I think I can best sum myself up as an introverted geek who likes
talking and listening to people and wandering through life without
trying to control everything. I have an inquisitive nature and I'm
a bit impulsive which I have to fight sometimes. I like going on
journeys and seeing where I end up. I float between bisexual and
homoflexible for the most part so while I have a preference for
men, I am still open to others.
I meditate often because I find in beneficial in many ways but I
don't care if you don't meditate. I don't have religion but I don't
care if you do or not (faith or lack thereof is your own business
and is no indicator of being a dick either way in my
I'm a creative type. I write, knit, needle felt and do make up from
time to time. I find them useful outlets. I also dance like a loon
when glow sticks are put in my hands.
I'm pretty easy going about most things. I have a sarcastic and
sometimes dark sense of humour.
Kink munches are my main social bread and butter so if you go to
any Brighton and Manchester munches, you'll most likely see me
I currently have one boyfriend.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working in a sauna
Practicing make up artistry when I can
Falling off the smoking wagon but getting back on again (sort
Writing about poly and kink for an online magazine
Trying to learn Tai Chi from YouTube videos
Learning to skate so I can play roller derby
Co-founding Europe's first fully gender inclusive roller derby
team. Ask for more details.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hugs and cuddles, making tea, cooking and baking, make up, being a
hermit, glow sticking, raving, building forts out of duvets and
drying racks, making pirate swords from cardboard and tin foil and
generally keeping the sort-of-step-kid entertained.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair I would imagine. Also the fact that I'm such a pretty boy
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Urgh this is going to be so long and yes I do enjoy a lot of
mainstream tv/film/books and don't read classics or go out of my
way to watch obscure things (although I am quite open to being
introduced to obscure international films.)
The Discworld Series
Non fiction (mostly WW1/2 stuff but anything about Maiko and Geiko
is also a winner)
Harry Potter (I'm not ashamed and don't care if you look down on me
Skepticism Inc. (funny and worth a read)
Neal Stephenson (especially Crytonomicon and Snow Crash)
The Narnia Books
The Millenuim Trilogy
Whatever else takes my fancy
There are many but to name a few:
The King's Speech
Full Metal Jacket
Good Morning Vietnam
The Great Escape
Repo! The Genetic Opera
James Bond Films
Studio Ghibli Films
Any really bad/dodgy horror and scifi
The Boat That Rocked
The Dark Crystal
All Quiet on the Western Front
The Lives of Others
Everything is Illuminated
The Princess Bride
The Fifth Element
Tinker, Tailor, Soldier, Spy
Star Trek (still not ashamed)
NASA/Space Documentaries (Secret space nerd is me)
Game of Thrones
Also a big list so I will only name a few
Victims of Science
A Perfect Circle
System of a Down
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A good cuppa
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My partners (romantic and play)
Current events, my interests, the people I care about, social
justice issues such as racism, ableism, trans activism etc
How much more make up I can conceivably fit into my train case
before I have to give in and buy a second one.
Keeping an eye out for new friends and partners
The sort-of-step-kid and my goddaughter.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Knitting, hanging out with boyfriend, at a munch or watching crap
on the telly.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a crush on Data and have done for years.
I secretly listen to 90's pop music.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are kinky and don't know what TMI means anymore.
You're not a dick.
You are poly or poly friendly.
Trans stuff doesn't scare you.
You like making friends.
You secretly listen to 90's pop music too.
You love watching Eurovision.
You like skating and roller derby
Who are you looking for?
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