Stephen Fry was once asked: "Is everything a joke to you?"
His response was: "Only the things that matter."
It's a really fair description of how I view things. If you can't laugh about something then you haven't properly internalized it. Which means I didn't take answering the questions very seriously.
Or to put it another MUCH nerdier way; If you're familiar with the term, I could be described as "Chaotic-Good." I will save you the trouble of Googleing it though:
"A chaotic good [person] acts as his conscience directs him with little regard for what others expect of him. He makes his own way, but he's kind and benevolent. He believes in goodness and right but has little use for laws and regulations. He hates it when people try to intimidate others and tell them what to do. He follows his own moral compass, which, although good, may not agree with that of society."
I know who I am and what I want. I've had women try to change me but I can't be tied down! I'm free as a bird! I'm wanted dead or alive! I won't be part of your system, man!
Seriously though, I feel like a big part of a successful relationship is being friends with your partner first. If you can't joke around with them, tell them things and have them listen as your friend and not a "girlfriend" then it'll never work.
I'm much more in favor of just meeting and having a face to face conversation. I feel like we'd learn more about each other, and isn't meeting the point anyway? I do however find myself in the uncomfortable position of not liking coffee. So, there's that.
I have a really bad habit of being the middle of editing my profile then just walking