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- Ages 25–50
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Online now!
- Pansexual, Queer, Sapiosexual
- Asian, Middle Eastern, Native American, Indian, White, Other
- 5′ 6″ (1.68m)
- Body Type
- Mostly other
- When drinking
- Other, but not too serious about it
- Aries, and it’s fun to think about
- Dropped out of university
- Less than $20,000
- Open relationship
- Strictly non-monogamous
- Has kids, but doesn’t want more
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), Mongolian (Poorly), Latin (Okay), Other (Fluently)
movies-Sweeney Todd, Repo, Doomsday, 300, Dark Knight, Dark Crystal, Labyrinth, Donny Darko, Gladiator, Kingdom of Heaven,any Troma films(especially toxic avenger ones), b horror, dark future, and dystopian films also hold a dear spot in my heart....etc
Music- 80s goth, industrial, indie rock, Tuuvan throat singing, mongolian rock, punk, death metal, folk and filk, middle eastern, so yes I love most music.Exceptions: most country and rap give me a rash. Oh and...what's a Beiber?
food-i don't eat the food that food eats. In other words, I like my meat, a lot. In a perfect world I would hunt it myself. Sad truth is I'm a pathetic apartment dwelling shaman, thus my hunting and gathering is limited to the local grocery store. My favorite foods are Thai, Chinese, Mexican and Greek. I love shellfish, but alas I have developed an allergy to it, so that's out now. if I ever decide to kill myself, I think I'll go to an all you can eat buffet and consume crab rangoon until i turn blue.
My Family-The Great Dark Horde
Novels-I read voraciously
When is capitalism going to end?
Why don't more people live in tents?
Why does it seem so hard to make friends as I get older?
Why do people love labeling themselves? (Especially inaccuratly)
Life, the universe and everything. When are the dolphins going to say, "So long, and thanks for all the fish?"
-you are a bbw, ssbbw, curvy chick, etc
-you are polyamorous (TRIBAL)
-you accept that I am happily married and have no intention of changing that. (This doesn't mean you need to be a unicorn or be romantically involved with my wife also, but you do have to enjoy her company on a platonic level at least.)
Male romantic interests:
-you are a somewhat androgynous bottom or switch.
-you accept that I'm happily married (see above)
-you are polyamorous (TRIBAL)
Im very attracted to transgender /queer /gender fluid people and have a great respect for the strength to live as you choose rather than how you were born or raised etc.
-you are queer, pagan, and poly friendly
-you are queer, pagan, or poly (bonus points for a triple play)
-you can hold your own in a stimulating conversation.
-you want to help me build a non judgmental light saber/Star Wars cosplay group.
-you enjoy the middle ages, reenactment, renfaires, or the SCA
-you have an intentional community
-you think I'm interesting
-you like discussing theology, but wont try to convert me
-you think my tribe and yours will get along!
Note-if you compartmentalize your life and don't live out loud we probably will have issues. If you need me to lie to your family or hide your lifestyle for you, I'm not interested in helping you keep or be your "dirty little secret" Wave your freak flag with me or stay over there.
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