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Jallon

35 M Indianapolis, IN

My Details

Last Online
Jul 10
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, and laughing about it
Sign
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Banking / Finance
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Greetings. So, about moi...

Well, let's see. I'm gay. And Jewish. And a navy brat. Oh, and an only child, too. Kudos if you're still reading this :)

I'm actually not religious these days (basically an atheist). Judaism is definitely part of my identity, but more as a cultural aspect rather than a religious one. It has shaped everything from my sense of morals to my sense of humor. I may reach a point in my life when I decide to rediscover my religious devotion, but right now, not so much.

I've been out of the closet since I was 18. Never looked back.

I have a B.A. with majors in Communication Studies and Philosophy. The philosophy was for fun (I'm really more of an armchair philosopher than anything else) - the comm studies was to actually get a job. I never pursued a Masters because my graduation had already been severely delayed due to health issues.

I'm a Leo, but not a very good one. I guess I can be kind of arrogant and stuck-up, but I'm not a party animal nor a very aggressive person. I think I should have been a Libra or Virgo. I've been called an "old soul" before, and it's probably true. I'm usually very serious and my sense of humor is more dry and sarcastic (and often filthy) than anything else; but I love cartoons and children's literature, too. I can be pretty goofy and nonsensical with people I'm comfortable with. I also curse a lot and have a filthy and subversive sense of humor.

I used to work in the health-food industry (yes, it was retail!). I'm not a vegetarian, but I do try to watch what I eat.

I love the smell of incense and of the air after a good rain. I like to stay up late and sleep in. I like to daydream and totally forget where I am. I like to sing, even though I'm generally bad at it. I can waste hours browsing YouTube or just random web-surfing. I remember faces better than names. I believe in soul-mates. I don't like clutter and I hate to accumulate useless junk, but I'm also lazy and hate cleaning.

I need to state outright that I am extremely allergic to cats. I like cats, but I can't be near them very long and I definitely can't live with them. So if you have to have a cat in your life and a dorky Leo won't suffice, then we probably weren't meant to be.

I'm usually "the nice guy" and often the responsible one. Spontaneity is fine when some planning is involved.
What I’m doing with my life
Working. I pay my bills with a job at a mutual fund company. It's not the kind of job I expected to get, but I find it surprisingly enjoyable, and they seem to like me. (What do they know?)

My more recent goal is travel. I've felt more willing to step out and see places a little more. As I save up time and money to do so, I plan to see more of America and perhaps a little more of the world. I'm not much into outdoorsy stuff, though. My idea of roughing it is a hotel that doesn't have wi-fi.

I'm also looking for Prince Charming, of course. I've never been in a serious relationship, so I can't say I know what I'm looking for. While I do believe in soul-mates, I don't believe a person has to have just one in the world.
I’m really good at
I love decorating. I've spent a lot of time working on my apartment & having fun finding just the right things (at just the right price, naturally). I love antiquing, window-shopping, and buying things on sale.

I make the best scrambled eggs of anybody I know.

I'm also good at writing, but I don't do it very much anymore except occasional projects at work.

I'm pretty good at analyzing things. Whenever someone offers an argument or opinion, usually the first thing I find myself doing is looking at it from the other side. I love metaphysical theories, ethical dilemmas and logical paradoxes.

I'm generally a good listener, when I can stay focused. However, I have a lousy memory. So just because I forgot something you said doesn't mean I wasn't paying attention :p

I read tarot cards, but that's strictly a hobby. It's not something I've studied in-depth and I do it more for fun than anything else. Sometimes I'm so way off it's funny, and other times I've given readings so accurate it's scared people. I've been accused more than once of being psychic. I make no such claim myself.

I like to think of myself as a forest-seeing person, but I really see trees. Lots and lots of trees. Sooooo many trees.

C'est la vie.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm pretty shy and quiet in person until I get to know you, so I guess people notice that.

Once I open up more, people notice my wit. I'm ok as a joke-teller, but I'm better at making funny remarks (not so much comebacks, though). I can be kind of sarcastic sometimes and I guess people don't always like that. But it's how I was raised.

Also my hair. I'm hairy.
Take that as you will.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Alice's Adventures in Wonderland/Through The Looking-Glass. The Hunting of the Snark. All the Harry Potter books. The Wheel of Time series. The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy trilogy and the Dirk Gently books. The Nightrunner series. The Gentleman Bastard series. The Illuminatus Trilogy and the Schrodinger's Cat Trilogy. The Lathe of Heaven. The Foundation series. Good Omens. The Mouse & His Child. The Wind In the Willows. The Last Unicorn.

Movies: My Favorite Year (all-time favorite). Animal House. Ghostbusters. Clue. Donnie Darko. The Producers. I Heart Huckabees. True Stories. The Blues Brothers. Waking Life. Labyrinth. Young Frankenstein. Rocky Horror Picture Show. The Harry Potter movies. Any Marx Brothers movie. The Princess Bride. Who Framed Roger Rabbit. Beetlejuice. The Nightmare Before Christmas. The Neverending Story. The Secret of NIMH. Monty Python & The Holy Grail. Grease. Rock & Rule.

TV: QI, Archer, Big Brother, Once Upon a Time. I'll catch clips of The Daily Show and Colbert Report when I feel like it.

Music: Enigma and Gorillaz are my two favorite bands. Most classic pop, rock, and folk. More recently, Mika, Regina Spektor, Imagine Dragons, One Republic, Daft Punk.

Foods: Italian, Greek, Turkish (basically anything Mediterranean) as well as Indian. Pizza - authentic pizza margherita Napolitana. Chocolate. Fish and seafood are always welcome (except for scallops or catfish - eww!). Feed me duck and I'll follow you anywhere. I'm actually very adventurous with food. More so than most people I know. I won't say I'll eat anything, but I like exotic stuff.

That said, I do not care for Thai food. And I will not watch violent and/or horror movies. If you want to freak me out, wear socks with sandals. If you want to scare me, vote Republican.
The six things I could never do without
My computer.
Air and (clean) water.
A means for bathing.
My family.
My sense of identity.
My life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Music/songs I like, or how to argue different sides of things. If I'm doing absolutely nothing, there's either some music running through my head or some kind of internal monologue about an issue, either important or trivial.

I probably also spend more time thinking about myself than I should, vain little Leo that I am. I also fantasize about sex/romance more than I should; I'm an absolutely hopeless romantic.
On a typical Friday night I am
Home. I'm very much a homebody. I may go out with friends or my parents sometimes to dinner or something like that, but I'm just as happy to stay home and read, surf the web, watch a DVD or play video games.

I do have a few close friends I spend time with when we all have the time - dinner, movie, hang out, etc. I'm not much into the bar or club scene since I'm a pathetic dancer and I don't really drink much.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Sometimes, late at night, when I'm all alone... I think naughty thoughts.

Actually, I have little experience both romantically and sexually. But I have a very active imagination, which I think makes up for it.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
...if you're looking for a guy with a brain and a sense of humor. I'm a regular guy, so if you're looking for six-pack abs and flawless skin, then move along.