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Jamers1981

28 / F / straight / Single

Idaho Falls, Idaho

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
—
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Gemini and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of college/university
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Kids
Has children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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My Self-Summary

I'm kind of a homebody, I enjoy spending a quiet night in with friends and family, but occasionally I like a wild night out. Recently divorced after a nine year relationship. I am the mother of 2 wonderful kids. A daughter age 2 that is too smart for her own good and a son age 3 that is autistic. I have learned a lot of patience in the last three years. I am a supervisor at a local grocery store and spend 40 hours a week there. I like a good book or movie, but my favorite time is the quality time I get with my kids.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm working at a grocery store right now, but I'm planning on going back to school, probably in psychology when my kids get into school full time. I am currently in the process of buying my first home, very exciting for me.

I’m really good at

I'm really the nurturing type at heart. I am a pretty good cook when I am in the mood.

The first things people usually notice about me

My hair, it is very thick and relatively long.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books, well I don't have a lot of time to read, but like half the women in America I'm a huge fan of the Twilight saga. I like romance and mysteries.

Movies, when I get to watch something that is not animated or G rated, I like a good action or horror. A romantic comedy now and then.

Music, until recently I listened to pretty much exclusively country. I can enjoy almost any kind of music.

Food. I am an Idahoan through and through and I love a good steak and baked potato. I also like a good mexican or chinese dish.

The six things I could never do without

my kids, they are my world
my family, they are the support that keeps me going
my job, it keeps me sane (or insane some days)
my friends, they tell me when I am doing something stupid
love, I'm a hopeless romantic at heart
a warm bath, it is the best way to unwind after a busy day

I spend a lot of time thinking about

the future, with two little ones on my own I wonder what the world will hold for them.

On a typical Friday night I am

unfortunately at work. I work the swing shift. but if I'm lucky enough to have one off I'm either with my kids enjoying quality time or out having a little fun with some friends.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

my roommate in college once kissed me in front of half the dorm. We got a standing ovation.

You should message me if

your looking for something kinda casual that could develop into more. Patience is very important because my son can be very difficult at times, but worth it in the end.

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