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30 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–28
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:36pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
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First generation, American-born Asian. How my parents ended up giving me the most Italian name possible? I have no clue! And no, my name isn't actually "James LaFleur." If you watched LOST, you know the reference.

Hm, so me in a nutshell.. I was born and raised in Jersey, went to school in Boston and have lived in NYC the past five years or so. I’m a pretty active person. I’m a former collegiate swimmer and always had a love/hate relationship with the pool, but still love the water. During the summer, I spend a lot of my free time on the weekends surfing in LI. For the rest of the year, my time is often spent between soccer leagues in the city, going out with friends in the LES, and, more recently, training in martial arts. I know, very Asian, but I was really curious to learn.

My friends would describe me as a west coast soul with an east coast drive. Adjectives they’d use to describe me would probably be laid back, evenly keeled, funny, caring, sarcastic, blunt, athletic, genuine, Asian and domesticated.

Why did I join OkCupid? Because those personality questions are more challenging than Sudoku.
What I’m doing with my life
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Making sure Lumbergh doesn't screw me over at work.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Thinking of Halloween costumes. My last three were Jon Gosselin, Manny Pacquiao, and PSY (Gangnam Style).
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably my laid back demeanor. Second might be my Caucasian look.. even though neither of my parents are Caucasian..
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Book: The Wave
Movie: Blood Diamond
Show: LOST (I'm still in withdrawl)
Music: The Killers and Bruce
Food: Soup dumplings
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The weekend.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With my friends at our local pub, glass of Macallan in hand, talking about our hopes and dreams. Okay, probably just watching the Knicks game in silence.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My guilty pleasure is 80's music. I may be a ridiculously good karaoke singer as well.
You should message me if
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You actually made it all the way here and are still intrigued.