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JamesMcLeod

30 Charlotte, NC Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:55pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black, Hispanic / Latin
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Banking / Finance
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Let's jump right in to it shall we!

I live by myself, pay my own mortgage, chase my dog around, and love my family and friends with all my heart. Without them, I wouldn't be the man I am, today.

To pay my bills, I have a job. Mom said I'd need one of those in life, so I took her advice. Been with the company 12yrs now. #longevity

I love Movies, I love TV, and I love Music. Who doesn't? More than likely we like the same ones too! I'm pretty eclectic. My sense of humor can be pretty out there. I'm always down for a laugh, because life will make you crazy if you don't. Its never a dull moment with me. I'm usually up for anything, as long as I have time to come home and feed my dog (she's gotta eat too you know!).

I'm the perfect blend of serious and goofy, with a dash of professional. I dont know what kind of Starbucks drink that'd make me, but I'm sure it'd be hellah good. I digress. For the most part, I'm a genuine, simple, and old fashioned kind of guy. I try not to take life too seriously, and if you don't either, I'm pretty sure we'd get along.
What I’m doing with my life
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Taking it one day at a time, and doing what I can to enjoy it...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
1. Patting my head, jumping on one foot, and rubbing my stomach at the same time
2. Making scrambled eggs
3. Writing
4. Baking
5. Laundry
6. My Job
7. Being Awesome
8. Taking care of my dog (especially during thunder storms, she hates those)

In no particular order...
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyelashes?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm pretty eclectic when it comes to movies and music, but I'm a big fan of the motown era, Frank Sinatra, old school hip hop, and horror flix...if I had to be specific...

Books: My favorite book is Max Brooks' Zombie Survival Horror Guide (I'm ready for the Zombie Apocalypse). But I'm a huge 'For Dummies' nut.

Music: everything from Adele to Nickel Back to ODB

Movies: Love horror flicks, especially anything with zombies. But comedies, thrillers, chick flicks, I watch it all. If it has a good story, I'm always down.

TV: My main shows are Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones, and Futurama. But to sum it up (HGTV, Food Network, NATGEO, DISC, H, AMC, A&E, FOX, SHOWTIME, HBO, Comedy Central, FX, all in HD). To get a little old school, Perfect Strangers, Family Matters, Mama's Family, All in the Family, The Wonder Years, Married with Children, The Drew Carey Show, Home Improvement...

Food: I'm a foodie. I like anything that tastes amazing. I restaurant hop with my fam, and we usually don't skimp on a good meal. We've eaten from all sorts of different places, but I'm a sucker for a juicy Ribeye.

I like to experiment in the kitchen, myself. I'm a decent cook and I love to bake. But I've been good on my goal to make healthier choices because I want to live as long as possible.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my dog
my phone, loaded with music and ebooks
friends
fam
money
love

Honorable mention: Reese Cups!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Every single thing I have to do to survive in this world!

But most recently, I've been thinking a lot about staying on track with getting in shape, what upgrade I want to make on my house next, establishing my production company to start doing voice overs, and how to become a millionaire over night...the last one is more wishful thinking =\
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
depends on how I'm feeling...usually I'm getting together with my friends for a night on the town, or just having a quiet evening at home, Netflix binging or recording some audiobooks.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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OK don't laugh...no matter the movie or TV show, I fight back tears whenever there is a scene of reuniting, after a big separation. *Vulnerability shields activated*
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