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JamesUSAF

27 M Hilliard, OH

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–28
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on university
Job
Military
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Integrity first, service before self, and excellence in all we do. These are the core values I learned in the Air Force and I do my best to live by this ethos.

In general I try to live my life in a way that I not only continuously refines myself but also enrich the lives of those around me. I'm an honest hard working man & I try my best to be a model citizen, a gentlemen, a good sameritain, a man of action, and I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic.

Hobbies: Taking my dog for walks, rifle & shotgun shooting, firearm instructing, hiking nature trails or just enjoying nature in general (I love to just sit outside amongst the trees and reflect on all the subtle beautiful details in our complex world) , camping, reading, ballroom dancing, playing games --Texas Hold'em Poker, Sudoku, Chess, the Chinese game Go & I'm considering getting back into oil painting and starting a garden (ideally a Japanese rock garden & a conventional food garden) I also have a fondness for bonsai trees.

Interests: Anthropology, Antiques, Architecture, Emergency Medicine & Preparedness, Horticulture, Human & Animal Rights, Interior Decorating (Feng Shui), Leadership Training, Military History, Renewable Energy, Paleontology, Philosophy, Photography, Politics/ Foreign Affairs, Psychology, Sociobiology, Wilderness Survival, etc..

There is much more to me then just my interests and hobbies or what books I like.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I moved back to Ohio in May of 2013 after completed six and a half years on active duty. I'm currently working as a land surveyor for a construction company but I'm also pursuing positions working with the military as a defense contractor or other government agencies (with my ultimate goal of one day working for the CIA ), while also working with the Air Force Reserve and helping stand up a new intelligence squadron at Wright Patterson Air Force Base in Dayton. This fall I'll be starting at Columbus State to finish the few remaining credits I need for my Community College of the Air Force degree in Communications and then transfer over to OSU to pursue a degree in Security & Intelligence ( International Security) and a minor in Russian. I'm also a board member & volunteer for a not for profit organization that has raised over half a million dollars for the OSUCCC for breast cancer research (we raised forty three thousand dollars at this years event!). I also try to do some kind of community service at least once a month, be it working with groups like habitat for humanity, (APTE) Alleviating Poverty Through Entrepreneurship, or the American Red Cross & I am currently in the process of registering as a bone marrow transplant donor! :)

I'm also working on getting into better shape by going out and running a few miles nearly everyday either with my dog or with friends. My goal is to lose 20lbs.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, always having something to talk about, being there for my friends and family when they need me, making people laugh
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Physicaly: Every now and then I get complements on my eyes

Personality: level-headed, my sense of humor, and my desire to help people.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
(in no particular order)
Books: Guns, Germs, and Steel by Jared Diamond,
The God Delusion by Richard Dawkins,
The Origin of Species by Charles Darwin,
Brave New World by Aldous Huxley,
The Art of War by Sun Tzu,
With the Old Breed by Eugene Sledge,
Gates of Fire by Steven Pressfield,
Sociobiology by E.O. Wilson,
The Naked Ape by Desmond Morris,
Candide by Voltaire
John Adams & 1776 by David McCullough,
Confessions of an Economic Hit Man by John Perkins,
Patriots by James Wesley Rawles
Parallel Worlds and Physics of the impossible by Michio Kaku
Cold Mountain by Charles Frazier
The Kalevala - Finnish Epic
The Song of Roland - French Epic
Beowulf - Angelo Saxon Epic
Völsunga saga - Norse Epic
the Hagakure - Yamamoto Tsunetomo
The Book of Five Rings - Miyamoto Musashi
On Killing, On Combat, and Warrior Mindset by Dave Grossman
The Road & No Country for Old Men by Cormac McCarthy.
anything by Tolkien,
etc..

(I read a lot of old epics and sagas because it's a way to learn great insight into what our ancestors viewed as important and how they percieved the world, how language has changed over the centuries, and often where modern day stories gain their inspiration. I find it all facinating!)

Movies: The Royal Tenenbaums, The Life Aquatic, Memento, The Big lebowski, Letters From Iwo Jima, Garden State, Being John Malkovich, Batman Begins, Jurassic Park, Edward Scissorhands, Heat, Office Space, 28 Days Later, 3:10 to Yuma, Terminator 2, The Thing, Saving Private Ryan, Amelie, The Departed, Children of Men, City of God, Cold Mountain, The last Samurai, Se7en, The Lord of the Rings, No Country for Old Men, Goodfellas, Star Wars, Pulp Fiction, Black Hawk Down, Scott Pilgrim vs. The World, The Other Guys, Gangs of New York, True Grit, etc...

Shows: South Park, Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones, Madmen, The Walking Dead,
Big Bang Theory, Duck Dynasty, Archer, Parks and Recreation, Arrested Development, Modern Family, Nova, Frontline, Mythbusters, TED talks, etc...

Music: Primarly focused around (but not limited to) Alternative/Indie/Rock examples; Interpol, Radiohead, Nine Inch Nails, The Strokes, The Killers, Muse, The Beatles, David Bowie, Coldplay, Kasabian, Metric, Sufjan Stevens, Micheal Buble, Grizzly Bear, Mumford and Sons, Daft Punk, Elton Jon, Michael Jackson, Frou Frou, NERO, The Temptations, Bruno Mars, Incubus, Creedence Clearwater Revival, Shania Twain, Snow patrol, Johnny Cash, The Sea and Cake, Death Cab for Cutie, Girl Talk, Beasty Boys, The Roots, The Stills, the Xx, The Mars Volta, etc...

Food: Meat! Pizza, BBQ, Calamari, Strawberries, Hard Ciders (Angry Orchard or Woodchuck), Starbucks Frappe Mocha, Almond Milk, Chipotle Burritos, etc..

If your still reading this...good job!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-Soma the awesome little Vizsla I'm so lucky to have in my life.
-My Close Friends (They're sprinkled in every corner of the country but I could still call on them for anything at a moments notice)
-My family ( They're the main reason I decided to come back to Ohio)
-Science, History, & Do it yourself Books
-My desire to learn ( I feel sorry for people that are content with not knowing or learning new things)
-My memories (whats the point of living if you can't remember your life)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Anything & Everything.

How to better myself. Problem Solving, Ancient History (lately I've been reading a lot about the Hellenistic period, The Successor Kingdoms, and the expansion of the Roman Empire), Geopolitics & Global Affairs, Science, Military Stuff, Philosophy, figuring out how things work and why it was developed and implemented the way it is.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out Dancing (I've been taking classes to learn Samba. Rumba, Cha-Cha, and waltz, thus far) Hanging out with friends, seeing a movie, or to quote The Great Walter Sobchak "F#$% it, Dude, let's go bowling."

I'm always looking to get out of my comfort zone and try something new, any suggestions?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Ha! nice try OKC
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You should message me if you would like to learn more about me or if you simply would like to say "thank you for your service", its always appreciated :)

If you have any fun ideas for a Friday night! Like I said I want to broaden my horizons and try new things.

I'm just trying to see who's out there.
I'm mostly just looking for the potential for a good friendship that may lead to an exclusive relationship.

Also many of my good friends are either lesbian or gay so if your not accepting of that lifestyle it's a definite deal breaker for me.

I have a few completely plutonic friendships with some really great girls and I wish to keep our friendships strong. If you're the jealous type and that bothers you that I may be spending any time with other girls, then I don't think we would be a good match for each other.