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JamesofJohnstown

37 Albany, NY Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–44
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:23pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Poorly), Other (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I really don't know how to describe myself. So here are some things that other people have said:

"You don’t interrupt. You’re not rude or crass. You don’t only talk about yourself. You don’t have weird tics or fidgets.
You’re not creepy or annoying. You have good teeth. You dress well." -- Female Friend from work

I was also told, recently, that I'm "cuter and younger looking" in person and that I'm a "smart dresser." -- Female Friend I met through Social Media

"James was always one of the nicest most genuine guys I've encountered in my stint here on this green earth.
I think he functions quite well." -- Friend who was cheering me up after I commented that I'm "malfunctioning"

"You never struck me as the kind of guy who needed anyone to complete him. You're pretty awesome as you are ! You say it but you need to realize that it's the truth!
I've envied your musical prowess and your ability to talk freely with others (maybe not women all the time) but you put yourself out there and I was never comfortable doing that too much introvert that I am." -- Same friend as the last quote

"You're well put-together." -- Woman at 7 Horse Pub

"You're such a good guy all the time and then -- whoosh -- the bad boy comes out!" -- Coworker

"I have a better question. Why the hell is a nice, thoughtful young man like you still single? Women had better wise up!" -- Female Friend of a Friend

"I think this is the most fun conversation I've had in a very long time so I'd love to go on a date with you." -- A Recent Date

"You're the nicest guy that I've met online." -- Recent date

"You're a good communicator. Seriously, most guys can't talk about what they're feeling. You do." -- Female Friend from work

"Wow! You smell REALLY good!" -- awkward woman in an elevator who was with her husband.

"That lady in the elevator was right! You do smell good!" -- A Recent Date Who Had Read My Whole Profile

"Great teeth." -- Dental hygienist

"You're so sexy." -- Recent date

"If you only date one man this year, date James" -- Movie critic who may or may not exist

I'm rated 8.5 (out of 10) on LuLu.

The critics are raving.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living out of boxes while I paint my new apartment little by little.

Trying to find out who I am. Staring at stars when I should be keeping my eyes on the road (this may or may not be metaphoric). Over-thinking unimportant things. Writing songs. Forgetting peoples' names.

I gave up my job as a selfie photographer because I only had one client.

I just started a new job with the state. So far, so good.

My credit score is pretty phenomenal. I bet you are swooning.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
not knowing what I'm good at.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
are that I'm playing a guitar and wearing a hat.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Anything by Neil Gaiman. Brandon Sanderson. Beach reads. Classics. I use to read a lot. However, over the last year or so, I quit reading five different books that I had attempted to start. I'm having a hard time getting "into" books for some reason. Not sure what my deal is. I still frequent book stores and browse, hoping to find something that grabs me and keeps me interested, and I just started re-reading a novel that I previously loved in hopes of jump-starting my love of reading (I think it's working).

Movies: I recommend to everyone: Masters of the Universe -- an awesomely awful 80s film in which He-Man, played brilliantly by Dolph Lundgren of all people, ends up on Earth where he gets to fight Skeletor's minions in a music store. Courtney Cox is in it. It didn't win any awards.

**deal breaker if you talk during movies.

Music: Folky-Indie Rock. Americana. Some classic Rock. 80's music. Alt Rock. Alt Country. Singer/songwriters. Local musicians. Acoustic guitars. Open Mics!

**when you listen to music, do you really listen? If you say, "let's listen to music," do you turn on some music and then proceed to talk about a billion different things that have nothing to do with the music? I'm someone who really listens and might want to talk about what they hear. PS -- when people are talking to me and there is music playing, I pretty much don't hear the person talking. If you find that to be an endearing quality, we're a match made in heaven. If you find that to be annoying, you're gonna hate me!

Food: Italian. Americana. Nachos. Breakfast. Cheese. Olives.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
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(Get it?)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
where in the world Carmen Sandiego is.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
probably checking out a local band.

A good evening for me is grabbing a nice dinner in a small group or with a close friend. Some drinks and conversations are great. Then, we'll go check out a band. If there isn't a good band to see, I prefer a quieter bar than a loud party (the one exception to this is Circus Cafe's Karaoke Night, which is actually on Saturdays).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
depends on the amount of drinks you buy me... Ha!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you find high credit scores to be sexy... Or if you like a dry sense of humor.