"You don’t interrupt. You’re not rude or crass. You don’t only talk about yourself. You don’t have weird tics or fidgets.
You’re not creepy or annoying. You have good teeth. You dress well." -- Female Friend from work
I was also told, recently, that I'm "cuter and younger looking" in person and that I'm a "smart dresser." -- Female Friend I met through Social Media
"James was always one of the nicest most genuine guys I've encountered in my stint here on this green earth.
I think he functions quite well." -- Friend who was cheering me up after I commented that I'm "malfunctioning"
"You never struck me as the kind of guy who needed anyone to complete him. You're pretty awesome as you are ! You say it but you need to realize that it's the truth!
I've envied your musical prowess and your ability to talk freely with others (maybe not women all the time) but you put yourself out there and I was never comfortable doing that too much introvert that I am." -- Same friend as the last quote
"Thank you for being one of the good people on here. It was a pleasure and very refreshing." -- Woman on OKCupid who found someone else before we were able to go out.
"You're well put-together." -- Woman at 7 Horse Pub
"You're such a good guy all the time and then -- whoosh -- the bad boy comes out!" -- Coworker
"I have a better question. Why the hell is a nice, thoughtful young man like you still single? Women had better wise up!" -- Female Friend of a Friend
"I think this is the most fun conversation I've had in a very long time so I'd love to go on a date with you." -- A Recent Date
"You're the nicest guy that I've met online." -- Recent date
"You're a good communicator. Seriously, most guys can't talk about what they're feeling. You do." -- Female Friend from work
"Wow! You smell REALLY good!" -- awkward woman in an elevator who was with her husband.
"That lady in the elevator was right! You do smell good!" -- A Recent Date Who Had Read My Whole Profile
"Great teeth." -- Dental hygienist
"You're so sexy." -- Recent date
"If you only date one man this year, date James" -- Movie critic who may or may not exist
I'm rated 8.5 (out of 10) on LuLu.
The critics are raving.