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36 M Broadalbin, NY

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Last Online
Today – 12:18pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Poorly), Other (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I was told recently that women, in general -- contrary to belief -- are not, in fact, wooed by guys who play guitar. Now, I'm not exactly looking for someone who is going to strip every time I strum an E minor 7, but it would be nice to spend time with someone who is moved my music as much as I am.

I like to go out to see local bands. Sometimes, I play in a band. I mostly play solo. I also like taking road trips, including to NH to visit my toddler niece and infant nephew. I really love the ocean because it engages all five senses.

Here are some testimonials:

"You don’t interrupt. You’re not rude or crass. You don’t only talk about yourself. You don’t have weird tics or fidgets.
You’re not creepy or annoying. You have good teeth. You dress well." -- Friend from work

I was also told, recently, that I'm "cuter and younger looking" in person and that I'm a "smart dresser." -- Friend I met through Social Media

"You're a good communicator. Seriously, most guys can't talk about what they're feeling. You do." -- Friend from work

"Great teeth." -- Dental hygenist

"You're so sexy." -- Recent date

"You're awesome!" -- Pretty much everyone that meets me.

I'm rated 8.5 (out of 10) on LuLu.

The critics are raving.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Seeking my heart's desire. Staring at stars. Brooding in the dark. Writing songs. Over-thinking unimportant things. Forgetting peoples' names.

I gave up my job as a selfie photographer because I only had one client.

I have a grown up job that I tolerate M-F, despite wanting to do other things with my time/life. I live alone (unless you count the voices... That was a joke, btw; I'm not "crazy," per se). My credit score is pretty phenomenal. I bet you are swooning.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Tying a knot in a cherry stem. Not really, but I did do it once!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
is the guitar that I'm playing and the hat that I'm wearing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Anything by Neil Gaiman. Brandon Sanderson. Beach reads. Classics. I use to read a lot. However, over the last year or so, I quit reading five different books that I had attempt to start. I'm having a hard time getting "into" books for some reason. Not sure what my deal is. I still frequent book stores and browse.

Movies: I recommend to everyone: Masters of the Universe -- an awesomely awful 80s film in which He-Man, played brilliantly by Dolph Lundgren of all people, ends up on Earth where he gets to fight Skeletor's minions in a music store. Courtney Cox is in it. It didn't win any awards.

**deal breaker if you talk during movies.

Music: Folky-Indie Rock. Americana. Some classic Rock. 80's music. Alt Rock. Alt Country. Singer/songwriters. Local musicians. Acoustic guitars. Open Mics!

**when you listen to music, do you really listen? If you say, "let's listen to music," do you turn on some music and then proceed to talk about a billion different things that have nothing to do with the music? I want someone who really listens and might want to talk about what they hear. PS -- when people are talking to me and there is music playing, I pretty much don't hear the person talking.

Food: Italian. Americana. Nachos. Breakfast. Cheese.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Guitar picks
Strings for the guitar
A capo for the guitar
A pen
and A notebook to write in.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Beyonce's jelly. What if I'm never ready for it?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
probably checking out a local band.

A good evening for me is grabbing a nice dinner in a small group or with a love interest. Some drinks and conversations are great. Then, we go check out a band. If there isn't a good band to see, I prefer a quieter bar than a loud party.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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depends on the amount of drinks you buy me... Ha!

Seriously though, I don't really know how to describe what I'm looking for. Past relationships that I've tried have been way too intense for me. I'm not looking to "settle down," but I do want to be monogamous. I'd like someone who is loyal, but not overly clingy. I like my alone time, but I love spending time with the right people. Does this sound confusing?
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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you want to have a couple drinks and listen to local bands. Or if you've fallen head over heals in love with my credit score. Or for any valid reason that you can come up with on the fly. Hell, you can make up a reason to write me and I'll fall for it. Just do it!