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36 M Broadalbin, NY

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–44
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:12pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Poorly), Other (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I really don't know how to describe myself. So here are some things that other people have said:

"You don’t interrupt. You’re not rude or crass. You don’t only talk about yourself. You don’t have weird tics or fidgets.
You’re not creepy or annoying. You have good teeth. You dress well." -- Female Friend from work

I was also told, recently, that I'm "cuter and younger looking" in person and that I'm a "smart dresser." -- Female Friend I met through Social Media

"I have a better question. Why the hell is a nice, thoughtful young man like you still single? Women had better wise up!" -- Female Friend of a Friend

"Hahahahaha you're too hilarious" -- Female Friend

"You're a good communicator. Seriously, most guys can't talk about what they're feeling. You do." -- Female Friend from work

"Wow! You smell REALLY good!" -- woman in an elevator who was with her husband.

"Great teeth." -- Dental hygenist

"You're so sexy." -- Recent date

"If you only date one man this year, date James" -- I may have made this one up.

I'm rated 8.5 (out of 10) on LuLu.

The critics are raving.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to find out who I am. Staring at stars when I should be keeping my eyes on the road (this may or may not be metaphoric). Over-thinking unimportant things. Writing songs. Forgetting peoples' names.

I gave up my job as a selfie photographer because I only had one client.

I have a grown up job that I tolerate M-F, despite wanting to do other things with my time/life. (*Update: I have recently developed a "five year plan," as they say. It includes paying off my student loan debt and honing in on where I belong). Currently, I live alone, but I'm rarely home. I'm often off on my own. My credit score is pretty phenomenal. I bet you are swooning.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
not knowing what I'm good at.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
are that I'm playing a guitar and wearing a hat.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Anything by Neil Gaiman. Brandon Sanderson. Beach reads. Classics. I use to read a lot. However, over the last year or so, I quit reading five different books that I had attempted to start. I'm having a hard time getting "into" books for some reason. Not sure what my deal is. I still frequent book stores and browse, hoping to find something that grabs me and keeps me interested.

Movies: I recommend to everyone: Masters of the Universe -- an awesomely awful 80s film in which He-Man, played brilliantly by Dolph Lundgren of all people, ends up on Earth where he gets to fight Skeletor's minions in a music store. Courtney Cox is in it. It didn't win any awards.

**deal breaker if you talk during movies.

Music: Folky-Indie Rock. Americana. Some classic Rock. 80's music. Alt Rock. Alt Country. Singer/songwriters. Local musicians. Acoustic guitars. Open Mics!

**when you listen to music, do you really listen? If you say, "let's listen to music," do you turn on some music and then proceed to talk about a billion different things that have nothing to do with the music? I'm someone who really listens and might want to talk about what they hear. PS -- when people are talking to me and there is music playing, I pretty much don't hear the person talking. If you find that to be an endearing quality, we're a match made in heaven.

Food: Italian. Americana. Nachos. Breakfast. Cheese.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Guitar picks
Strings for the guitar
A capo for the guitar
A pen
and A notebook to write in.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
where in the world Carmen Sandiego is.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
probably checking out a local band.

A good evening for me is grabbing a nice dinner in a small group or with a close friend. Some drinks and conversations are great. Then, we'll go check out a band. If there isn't a good band to see, I prefer a quieter bar than a loud party.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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depends on the amount of drinks you buy me... Ha!

Seriously though... I'm looking for my lobster. They say that lobsters mate for life.
You should message me if
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you think you're my lobster.