I like to go out to see local bands. I play in a local band. I'd rather drink and dance than talk about work.
A female friend at work just said this when I asked her what she would find annoying about me if we dated.
"Nothing. You don’t interrupt. You’re not rude or crass. You don’t only talk about yourself. You don’t have weird tics or fidgets.
You’re not creepy or annoying. You have good teeth. You dress well."