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30 • Waltham, MA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 25–40
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating
- Last online
- Today – 9:30pm
- 6′ 3″ (1.91m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from masters program
- Strictly monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Has dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Italian (Poorly), Portuguese (Poorly), French (Poorly)
I hope I don't sound obnoxious, but I'm everything you want (cue the 90's song). I had an accident when I was 14, but am "normal" otherwise. I have a spinal cord injury, but I have learned how to adapt and cope with pretty much everything and people tell me (quite often) that I'm an inspiration.
I'm happy to answer ANY questions. You will not offend me. I joke about everything (unless I need to be serious), my injury included.
"Maybe we could go somewhere and just eat a bunch of caramels... It's just as arbitrary as drinking coffee."
UPDATE: I've recently been told that it is intimidating to date someone in a wheelchair. If you feel that way, tell me and I can put your mind at ease. I'm approachable, knowledgable, and open. I've been told that I have a calming effect on people.
I love learning and I'm hoping to turn the computer science class I'm taking into an advanced degree...
I'm good at solving problems, remaining calm under pressure, sharing my feelings, complimenting others, and making people feel appreciated.
I was recently told that I am "a great guy (who is pretty darn funny)", so I've got that going for me ;-).
Maybe how the room got brighter when I entered :-P.
Also, possibly the song I am singing.
Movies- Spaceballs, Rounders, Ace Ventura, Bourne Trilogy, History of the World Part 1, The Matrix, He's Just Not That Into You, South Park: Bigger, Longer, and Uncut, 10 Things I Hate About You, Austin Powers, Airplane!, Remember the Titans, Juno, anything Disney/Pixar...
Shows - For reruns, I like Seinfeld, Friends, Arrested Development, Will & Grace, Frasier, Scrubs, Monk, and That 70's Show. For currently airing shows, I love Big Bang Theory, The Newsroom. and Game of Thrones. I like Psych, Castle, Modern Family, 2 Broke Girls, Franklin and Bash, White Collar, Suits, Covert Affairs, Mentalist, Person of Interest, Chelsea Lately, and The Soup.
Music- I like most music except hard rap and hard (loud) rock. My current favorites are Adele, Andy Grammar, Home Free, Colbie Callait, Maroon 5, The Script, Matchbox 20, Goo Goo Dolls, lots of groups from the 60s, 70s, 80s, and 90s, Sara Bareilles, and Rockapella. I love new music. Do you have any suggestions?
Food- I never say no to trying a new recipe or restaurant and get, literally, giddy when I am going to try a new place. My favorite types of food are Italian, Chinese, Thai, Japanese, and Jewish. I also like Greek, Indian, and Brazilian food.
2) my friends
5) cell phone
I'm a little disappointed about the last two, but how did we live before all this technology?
"Have you ever thought that there's more to life than being really, really, really ridiculously good-looking?"
-you are amazing, you're looking for someone equally amazing, and you want to get off this website and ride off into the sunset.
-you understand life's mysteries and would like to explain them to me or discuss them with me.
-you want to join me at the movies or an art festival
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