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Jammydodger81

33 M Canterbury, UK

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:24pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Ancient Greek (Okay), Latin (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A thoughtful, pragmatic, compassionate guy who is knowledgeable, mainly in the field of science, but able to hold their ground on a number of subjects. Highly literate and well read, however not one to come over as an ass about it. Due to a logical mind they can come over as sharp and bookish, however they are warm, loving, and builds their life round their family and friends.

Most outgoing when with close friends who they can relax fully with, but shy and introverted in new environments and with those new to them. A wise, perceptive, empathetic listener. Someone who, while sensitive to those around him and well balanced enough to give good advice, is modest and courageous with the strength to move heaven and earth.

A dry sense of humor, with hints of sarcasm, pedantry, references, a gentlemen's wit and sometimes some very dark undertones depending on mood. The exact recipe is a trade secret, but it produces a heady brew that is pleasing on the senses.

Someone who tries to be as positive and as cheerful as one can be in the current climate by focusing on goals and seeing them through to completion. A highly imaginative and creative thinker that has a firm gasp of how the world fits together and can visualize it in the mind's eye without dreaming of dreams that will never come. Someone who has perfectionist tendencies that can lead to sometimes over thinking details until a deadline looms and then it is all hands on deck and full steam ahead!

As they say Life is a stick, go get it!!

Keywords: Beard, Geek, Video Games, Board Games, Romance, Glasses, Nerd.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Currently adventuring through life with a compass that has lost its needle! Not to say there is no direction in their life, however they make their own course through it; while following their heart and mind!

A man of few posessions and that is not due to a lack of wealth or some crazy religious leaning, however their second degree meant a pokey room in Central London that could hardily contain themselves, let alone a sea of extra things as well. This has lead to a new outlook on life. They feel that without the burdens of a life tied to material things that they can do anything and follow their feet to new vistas.

Just started programming in Python and started writing their first fantasy novel. The novel was meant to be part of NaNoWriMo, however due to mental blocks and realising that it was harder to just fling oneself headfirst in this project that this will be more of a long haul affair.

Getting back into cooking and baking again. They have always been an experimental cook, and even though one can follow a recipe, prefer to cook by look, taste, and feel. The rule followed is that if it is edible and doesn't taste too bad then it gets eaten, even if that recipe is noted and not tried again. It is back to the drawing board and onwards to new heights.

They have just just restarted a diet plan and a health kick to get in shape. Once a beastly 24 stone they are currently currently just under 17st and it is slowly coming off. They are starting to see definition in their musculature and pleased with the results. Soon it will be off to Krav Maga training to, once again, get properly in shape.

A life sized Dalek is slowly taking form in the living room. This is so they can go to conventions and help to raise money for charity.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
A crazily good cup of tea can be made. Personally they drink mostly Earl/Lady Grey or Green Tea, for those who wish it however there is what they would call normal tea.

As it has been said before they are very good at giving people advice. They have had nurse training (auxiliary), so know how to be empathic and how to read people moods and hear the words that people do not say. Also as someone who is also emphatic they are able to advocate their opinions and dispense this, with consent of course!

As said before, they are a voracious reader and a total knowledge sponge. A solid addition to any pub quiz team as esoteric knowledge is their forte.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Doctor Phil wrote:

Others notice that they are fresh, lively, charming, amusing, practical and always interesting; someone whose constantly the centre of attention (yh right, read introvert), but sufficiently well-balanced not to let it go to their head. They also see them as kind, considerate, and understanding; someone who'll always cheer them up and help them out.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Work in Progress. Once completed then I shall put it in.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Maslows triangle of need withstanding and the things like oxygen, etc taken as a given then:

1) Sleep in a decent bed.
2) Tea.
3) Something to strive for.
4) Something to believe in.
5) Internet interface of some kind.
6) Snuggles.
6 and a half) Laughter. (not cheating honest)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
They would like to say the meaning of the universe and to some extent I do give that some thought. However more likely to be thinking about all kinds of random geekery or some mad-cap scheme or invention that will amuse them until they realise they lack the engineering skills to make a hamster powered death-ray.

The fact that my highest matches are hardily ever in the UK.

Why I wrote a lot of this profile in the past plural tense. It is a little odd but in the nicest way possible, a lot like myself.

How things change.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
No typical Friday night out for me. I am either having a good time with friends and playing pool (mostly online these days), sat in having a quiet night in, curled up with a book or my laptop.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Not one for clubs, if one wanted to shout to be heard, and mix drugs with water then I would go volunteer at an old peoples home.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are geeky, looking for someone to play xbox 360 with, another player at the games table or maybe even something more.

So if you want to see if there is a spark between us, then drop me a line! Also if you're a lady who likes handsome, sweet, beardy men.