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My self-summary
I'm incredibly nerdy, and a perfect gentleman. I'm an intense lover, passionate cuddler, active listener and quirky soul. Laughter is my favorite form of verbal communication, and I'm always striving to please my friends and lovers. I live a fairly active lifestyle. I have a very large group of friends that I see often. We go to bars, we have house parties, we find free shows in the valley and dance our asses off, and we sit and chill sometimes. I work for a living and I own a car.

If I visit your profile a lot, it's because I have a short memory.

I drink, I cuss, and I'll hold the door open for you every time we come to the car, or enter a building. I have some neat scars that are great conversation starters, but I still turn into unintelligible mush at the mere sight of a kitten. I'm a lot of personality wrapped up into a semi-little package, but I'm never too much to handle. I ADORE affection, but I'm not clingy. I'll always respond as soon as I can to calls/texts, but I won't smother you in them. I believe that honesty is number one in any relationship, platonic or romantic. Therefore, I'm incredibly blunt. I'm not afraid to tell you how lovely you look, or that maybe you should remove the bit of toilet paper desperately hanging from the bottom of your shoe.

All of that being said, I'm actually a lot of fun to be around! I'm a silly goofball and I like to enjoy the company of those I surround myself with. You may catch me ducking behind large objects and peeking my eyes around them- stalking you through the isles of a grocery store. I climb my tall friends when I'm lubricated with courage nectar. I'm inwardly very fluffy and affectionate and I'll make you feel incredibly comfortable. I'm insanely easy to talk to- not even a little bit intimidating.
What I’m doing with my life
Living it. Enjoying good company. Getting better at supporting server side issues and managing hosting environments.
I’m really good at
Mother fucking, camping!
Keeping secrets.
NOT gossiping.
Rock climbing.
Sincerely listening when I ask you how your day was.
Though I'm not even a vegetarian, I cook a mean vegan meal!
Finding the positive applications in any situation.
Cutting onions without crying.
Making people laugh.
Figuring out where you left your phone last
Finding something spontaneous to do.
Asking odd questions.
Being there for someone when they need the company.
Driving a manual transmission.
Making fun of myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
Usually my watch. It's a really fantastic watch.

I smile a lot and I'm really friendly.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books/Authors: Watership Down, The Dresden Files Series, Harry Potter, Everything is Illuminated, everything by David Sedaris, Augusten Burroughs, Orson Scott Card, Chuck Palahniuk, Douglas Adams, Jean M. Auel, Tipping the Velvet, Rubyfruit Jungle, Octavia E. Butler, The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time and much more.

Movies: Brick, Shortbus, The Fountain, Closer, Shawshank Redemption, Tigerland, American History X, Boondock Saints, Eternal Sunshine of a Spotless Mind, The Fall... So many more that I cannot fit in this little box. Ask me, I love movies. Lets watch one together.

Music: Ani DiFranco, Tegan and Sara, Ellie Goulding, The XX, Fleet Foxes, Future Loves Past, The Sugar Thieves, Matt and Kim, The Weepies, Oasis, Agnes Obel, The Blow, Adele, Lykke Li, Regina Spektor, Yann Tierson, The Jezabels, Freelance Whales, Vampire Weekend, Pinback, Fiona Apple, Mumford and Sons, Florence and the Machine, Third Eye Blind, Portishead, Clint Mansell, Modest Mouse, Cocorosie, Aphex Twin, Celldweller, Azure Ray, The Postal Service, The Knife, Fatboy Slim, Nina Simone, A Perfect Circle... holy shit, I'm such a lesbian.

Food:Pho. I'm so fucking addicted to pho. There is a place that delivers to my house, and I'm slightly ashamed-not-ashamed of how often I order... Sushi and Thai food. Mostly, I love cooking and making stuff up. I will try everything three to a dozen times... because what if it wasn't made well the first 11 times?

I hate the combination of chocolate and peanut butter. I like them separately and in other dishes, but I don't like when they hold hands. I know this will be the reason I die alone.
The six things I could never do without

A good book
Iced soy mocha
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Mostly, right here, right now.
Occasionally, tomorrow and it's infinite possibility.
Rarely, what if...?
"What if?" is definitely the most terrifying thing I can think about. Basically because you can only ever reach one conclusion, and that is, "You just never know." And that's something I try to avoid at all costs. So far so good.

Lately, I've been thinking about moving in March and starting over in a new city. I think the change would be good for me. *shrugs*
On a typical Friday night I am
Who knows, I don't really have a typical Friday night. It also depends if I'm working or not. I do like to go out and see my friends whenever possible.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've not just recently realized, but have known for a long time, that I fall fast, and I fall hard. I've been told that it's my downfall, and in opposition, I've been told that it's one of my more endearing characteristics. I suppose you could say that it's a part of the whole, "What if?" scenario. I'm not afraid of being hurt; I'm afraid of missing out.
You should message me if
I'm interested in having real conversations. Give me substance. Don't bother if you're just going to message me with a "Hi." Ask me something random! I love making new friends as well!

Good luck in all that you've resorted to this website in searching for.