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JanieNM

49 / F / bisexual / Single

Albuquerque, New Mexico

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 6" (1.67m).
Body Type
Athletic
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
—
Religion
Buddhism and laughing about it
Sign
Pisces and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am soft, strong, and sweet.

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My Self-Summary

I am a pretty happy and content person. I have rid myself of more baggage than most folks will ever accumulate, and am loving my life. I only whine occasionally and as a coping skill-not a lifestlye. Sometimes I hesitate. That hasn't always worked out really well, and I am increasing my response time in realtime. I dont run away as much as I once did. I am slow to anger.
I am a pisces and love the water and am dualistic (whatever and its opposite) - i like it all and have few favorites or strong preferencece. I am easy going.
I am independent, but capable of deep intimacy and committment. I am protective of my healed heart and my freedom. I am very tolerant, giving and loyal in my relationships.

What I’m doing with my life

I do work i love as an employed professional and a little on the side. I spend time with friends and family. I LOVE the outdoors and start to wither if i dont get out of the city. I love camping hiking, snowboard, and photography.
I love movies, in an uncrowded theatre.
I also enjoy cooking dining out and grocery shopping!
I love going on adventures.

I’m really good at

having fun
staying calm and avoiding drama
taking care of myself
helping others
photography
mini-expedition planning and logistics
cooking for myself and others
wisdom and perspective

The first things people usually notice about me

ask them, please. OK... i will ask 10 friends and get back to you on this.
i am living large and am a little larger than life size (coincidence? i don't think so)

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

All kinds of food, especially, ethnic, natural and combined in fun ways. I dont like chain restaurants. Think globally, eat locally.
I like dharma texts, Pema Chodron, Robert Heinlein, Adventure stories, sci fi,

The six things I could never do without

6? why 6?
the sky
my frying pan
good knees
decent lingerie
friends and family
water
green chile
bending the rules

I spend a lot of time thinking about

love and death
buddhadharma
monogamy versus polyamory
female archetypes
what would Amelia Earhart do?

On a typical Friday night I am

decompressing from the week, taking it easy at home. lets order in, get a movie and some sake or beer and relax and reconnect. who knows where it might lead?

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

i am not the unhappy person i once was. there is much more to know about me.

You should message me if

you want to get to know me better and want to be known.
Friends first, then lovers. and hopefully best friend and only lover.

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