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  • Ages 21–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 11:08pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Open relationship
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), French (Okay), German (Okay)
My self-summary
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Smooth, composed, and well-mannered on the outside. My wardrobe fits and I'm comfortable in my body. I've got good social range, and I like to be fun. I've got plenty of chat.

Goofy, wound-up, and subversive on the inside. I've got a big-ass imagination, and I use it often. I'm a glutton for life experience, and I battle complacency daily.

I'm definitely a right-brain type: I write professionally, I'm a strong dancer, I enjoy public speaking, I'm a killer GM, and I've always got a personal project in the works.

I'm in a long-term, open relationship with cncat. We have a fantastic relationship, and are both here to meet new people. If you want to know more about this, please ask!
What I’m doing with my life
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I spent the past several years teaching abroad, and I loved international work/travel. Now I make a modest living in the arts: I write freelance for an RPG magazine, I do ghosty stuff (tours, lectures, ghost hunts, etc) and I teach a little dance here and there.

I was recently commissioned to write my first play, and I'm really excited to see it hit the stage later this year!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Dancing (WCS, Blues, freestyle). Thumb wrestling. Storytelling (ghost stories are my specialty). Dream recall. Navigating foreign cities. Knowing who starred in movies I never saw. Keeping conversations going. Being cheesy. Art museums. Roleplay (tabletop or bedroom)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Thelonius Monk, Mos Def, Brahms, Radiohead, Chet Baker, Pretty Lights, TooL, Dave Brubeck, Howlin Wolf, Sufjan Stevens, Led Zep, Grammatik, Bill Evans, 2Pac, Cream, Amon Tobin, Curtis Mayfield, Dresden Dolls, Beats Antique, Nina Simone

sashimi, curly fries, biscuits and gravy, mussels provencal, manhattans, the day after Thanksgiving, comte cheese, coffee, chili sauce, ban chan, croissants, dark chocolate, grapefruits

The Sandman, Infinite Jest, Teachings of Don Juan, Trout Fishing in America, VALIS, Leaves of Grass, Lolita, The Hobbit, On the Road, Solaris, Anna Karenina, Song of Ice and FIre, Catcher in the Rye, Neverending Story, ee cummings selected, Heretic's Handbook of Quotations

The Shining, Pulp Fiction, Princess Bride, Fear and Loathing, Dark Knight, Fight Club, Dr. Strangelove, Big Lebowski, Goodfellas, City of God, Spirited Away, Alien, The Birdcage, No Country, Black Swan, The Game, Air Guitar Nation, Before Sunrise/Sunset, Raiders of the Lost Arc, Silence of the Lambs

The Venture Brothers, The Last Airbender, The Wire, Blackadder, Twin Peaks, World Cup, House of Cards, Battlestar Galactica, True Detective, NFL football, Sense8, John Oliver, Deadwood
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Play (it's the soul of creativity)
2. Words (we're tool-using creatures!)
3. Taste (kimchi, baby)
4. Travel (psychonautics included)
5. Contrast (the devil has his place)
6. Sex (!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Stories! I write/tell stories for money, and I create games that help other people tell their own stories. I'm presently working on my first immersive theater piece.

Dreams. I have an extremely active dreamlife, and I practice at it diligently. My eventual goal is to become a consistent lucid dreamer, though right now I'm still streaky.

Mortality. Kind of a bummer, but there ya have it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
DANCING! Or out with friends, doing the whole dinner/drinks/show trinity. I also enjoy the occasional gaming night, or a popcorn and movie situation.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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League of Legends.
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