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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

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Last online
Yesterday – 12:36pm
Asian, White
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Open relationship
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), French (Okay), German (Okay)
My self-summary
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Smooth, composed, and well-mannered on the outside. Goofy, twisted, and intense on the inside. I love to (teach) dance, tell stories, write, and travel!

I spent several of the past few years abroad, backpacking through Asia and Europe. I'm back in the US full time now, working as professional writer, ghost tour guide, and occasional traveling lecturer.

I'm in a long-term, open relationship with cncat. We have a fantastic relationship, and are both here to meet new people.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm an eclectic - I cobble together income and amusement from multiple sources. I write freelance for an RPG magazine, I do ghosty stuff (tours, lectures, ghost hunts, etc) and I teach a little dance here and there.

I was recently commissioned to write my first play, and I'm excited to see it hit the stage later this year!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Dancing. Thumb wrestling. Storytelling! (Lucid) dreaming. Navigating foreign cities. Knowing who starred in movies I never saw. Asking evocative questions. My moustache. Keeping conversations going. Being cheesy. Art museums.
The first things people usually notice about me
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So, when I was a kid (maybe 10 years old), I saw a picture of Salvador Dali. You know the one, with the long-ass moustache and the crazy eyes. Since then, I always wanted that moustache. And now I have it. And people comment on it. A lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: Thelonius Monk, Brahms, Mos Def, Radiohead, Chet Baker, Pretty Lights, Dave Brubeck, Sufjan Stevens

Food: sashimi, curly fries, moules provencal, the day after Thanksgiving, blue cheese, ban chan

Books: Infinite Jest, Trout Fishing in America, Lolita, On the Road, Anna Karenina

Films: The Shining, City of God, Pulp Fiction, Fight Club, Princess Bride, Dr. Strangelove, Big Lebowski
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Play
2. Words
3. Taste
4. Travel
5. Contrast
6. Sex
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Stories! I write/tell stories for money, and I create games that help other people tell their own stories.

Dreams. I have an extremely active dreamlife, and I practice at it pretty diligently. My eventual goal is to become a consistent lucid dreamer, though right now I'm still streaky.

Mortality. Kind of a bummer, but there ya have it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
DANCING! Or out with friends, doing the whole dinner/drinks/show trinity. I also enjoy the occasional gaming night, or a popcorn and quirky movie situation.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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League of Legends.
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