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JaphyRider

36 / M / straight / Single

Mountain View, California

The Skinny

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 1" (1.85m).
Body Type
Athletic
Looking For
Long-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
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Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am kicking, ass, and taking names.

My Self-Summary

Personal ads? Yeah, I always know just what to put in these things. But what can I say? I am good at them. It's a gift. So who am I in a few words?

Okay... I am going to level with you. Honesty is important to me and this is no way to start off this relationship. I find this section a little difficult.

But basically I would say I am a pretty nice guy, happy, and easy going. I think my friends would tell you I am a lot of fun. I always have lots of ideas of things to do and see. And I am always up for doing them. I am kind of an unconventional guy too, different in a good way.

The first things people usually notice about me

my dashing good looks, my keen intellect, and my command of the current situation

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

So this is the section where I am supposed to impress classy tastes. Well prepare to be impressed... ladies.

I read quite a bit. And to satisfy my curiosity of the world I mostly read nonfiction. A couple of my faves are Guns, Germs, and Steel and The Omnivores Dilemma. When I read fiction it is often the classic geek texts like Hitch Hiker’s Guide to the Galaxy or Lord of the Rings. I do get around to proper literature now and again. The Dharma Bums is one of my favorites.

I gravitate toward comedies, Caddyshack, Animal House, The Big Lebowski, Office Space, Old School. I enjoy good action films like Fight Club, Snatch, and Unforgiven. In the drama department it’s Dead Poets Society, Breakfast Club, and Before Sunrise. I love the classics of sci-fi and fantasy like Blade Runner.

These days I mostly listen to guys like Van Morrison, John Lennon, Nick Drake, Iron & Wine. I listen to a lot of British stuff too, Oasis, Ride, Travis, and Coldplay (their an obscure eclectic band I am sure you have never heard of). I am pretty fond of The Shins too.

I don't think this system has enough RAM for me to type in all my favorite foods. I wouldn't label myself as a foodie. Let just say a food enthusiast. I find myself sighing a lot in the presence of picky eaters.

The six things I could never do without

My mountain bike, my camera, and my laptop. Only three things. I guess I have finally become the minimalist I have always wanted to be.

I suspect the creators of this site intended this to be a short list of our interests. I love traveling. I mostly do road trips all around the country. But I have done some trips abroad and I intend to do more in the near future. I like mountain biking, hiking, and sea kayaking. And recently I have taken up sailing. I am driven to create things. I like crafts like ceramics and wood working. But I do a lot of photography too. And then I just like exploring and learning more about Mother Nature, hiking, camping, bird watching, and gardening.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

understanding other peoples point of view

On a typical Friday night I am

My favorite things to do when out for a night on the town are going to nice restaurants and comedy clubs.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I sing in the shower ... poorly

You should message me if

if you enjoy travel
if you love the outdoors
if you have a good sense of humor and like to laugh